Post Date December, 03 2023
Men are strong animals. They would rather lose their lives than be willing to fail. In love, men have a bad habit, that is, when there are contradictions between the two sides, they will not admit their mistakes even if they die, and will blame all the responsibility on women. Men don't want to admit their mistakes. What's the reason?
1. When women ask questions, men feel blamed
For example, when a woman asks, "Where did you go just now?", she actually casually asks, but the man feels that this sentence is a kind of doubt, and also feels that she is not blaming me.
If the man replies, "Go to drink and socialize", the woman will reply, "I have been socializing a lot recently", and then the man thinks, "Ah, she really blames me. There may be different answers to the same question, but men are the kind of creatures who will think of others' questions as questioning and will not deal with them, which is also a matter of no way.
2. Men always want to prove that they are "honest"
Men have their own style of thinking, and their brain circuits make them always want to prove that they are "very honest". This kind of self-righteous thinking determines the way of doing things. For example, when something falls, they will think at the first time: Who put it here? Exclude yourself as the "troublemaker", and then easily lose temper with things. This is the most common picture. This is the so-called self-righteous doctrine, which always wants to emphasize that he is not bad, and thus determines the next action.
In the same way, men will not bow their heads and admit their mistakes when they quarrel. Even if I deeply know that I am wrong, I don't want to apologize, because this will destroy my integrity image.
3. It's a smart way to fight by giving men steps
Make clear that men should be careful. When women encounter this situation, they should have different treatment methods, that is, leave room for negotiation. As in the previous example, what women do is not to say: "I have had a lot of entertainment recently", but to answer vaguely "Oh"
If you want to exchange views and come up with a perfect solution, such dialogue will not work. If you say something insignificant in a moment of authority, it will only lead to a quarrel. Therefore, leaving steps for men is the wise way to avoid meaningless quarrels.
When two people fall in love, they will inevitably stumble and quarrel. After an argument, don't talk with anger immediately, but both sides should calm down, and women should not always try to make men admit their mistakes. As long as we postpone the conversation a little bit, and wait until the two people's anger is gone, then we will not argue again.
