No one in the world does not lie. There are malicious lies as well as well-intentioned ones. During love, men are born to be expert liars in front of women. In order to make women happy, men tend to say some unrealistic sweet words. These words are often only said to make women happy for a while, not necessarily true. So, how can we tell whether men are telling the truth or lies?
Detail 1: swear by heaven
This method is very old, but also very simple and effective! Most Chinese believe that after taking a false oath, they will get retribution. When you suspect that the other party is lying, if you say "I don't believe it, swear!" in a coquettish and joking tone, the other party will reply with "Why is it so boring?", "I didn't do it again, why do you ask me to swear?" and other words, and even lose temper. Congratulations, it's probably true, otherwise why should the reaction be so fierce Many lovers will doubt whether he is faithful to himself or not? Did you lie? Love you enough? It is reasonable to have such doubts because we value them. If we don't care, how can we want to understand him better and get closer to his heart? However, if doubt has become the main theme of your love, don't forget that sincerity is the cornerstone of love. When trust has been lost, love has lost its value.
Detail 2: more gifts must be deceitful
When he is suddenly very kind to you, you should be careful. He always puts his work or friends first, and he never spends much time and effort on you, but today he suddenly calls you to show his concern; A big piece of wood that is usually forgotten even on birthdays or anniversaries, but suddenly bought a thoughtful gift for you; Suddenly accompany you to do the things he didn't like most before; Or suddenly accompany you to watch movies he doesn't like; Otherwise, it is to help you cook and wash clothes suddenly, and so on. This "sudden change" of "more gifts must be deceitful" must be to cover up and kill your inner anxiety and guilt.
Detail 3: Pay attention to small movements
According to psychological theory, when a person lies, there are often involuntary and fixed small actions. This is not the plot of God of Gambling. In the clinical research of criminal psychology, it is also found that when a criminal lies, he can often observe some fixed small actions, such as looking right in front, touching his nose, rubbing his hands, blinking, sweating, stuttering, etc. These small actions vary from person to person, but as long as he has been observed for a long time and carefully, he must know when he is a "ace liar"
Men are not lying without signs, so as long as female friends pay more attention to men's details and small movements, they can tell whether they are lying. However, Xiaobian reminds everyone that you should pay attention to your mental health in life to make your love more happy.