Post Date December, 02 2023
1.
When Cherry came to our unit for an internship, she was in her senior year, hardworking, brave, and hardworking. She was always able to do the tasks assigned to Cherry quickly and well. With such good qualifications and such hard work, our department happened to be recruiting people at that time. I told Cherry that we were considering keeping you, so please prepare your resume. As long as the human resources department passes, you will become our colleague after graduation.
The unit where I work is a top-notch newspaper in the country, or to put it bluntly, a place where students from journalism and communication departments across the country worship. The employment situation was extremely bleak that year, and according to common sense, hearing such news would make one feel so happy that they fainted or rotated three times in place, which could be considered restrained.
Cherry refused.
She said that her dream from childhood to adulthood was to be a good wife and mother. As a journalist, working hours are too unstable, although there is no need to clock in, it also means that one cannot leave work on time. She wants to find a job that lasts from nine to five, such as being a teacher, working in a state-owned enterprise, and being safe and stable. Because her boyfriend works in IT and is busy with work, she hopes that every day when he comes home, he can eat the food she has prepared.
Virtuous and virtuous, what a scarce quality.
I should have liked her.
But I really thought she was my younger sister, so I told her that the most important thing is not to let the man eat first, but to let you eat well yourself.
She said, 'That's right, so I want to find an iron rice bowl.'. I don't want to take any risks and find work that requires overtime and hard work.
I said: What is an iron rice bowl? It's not that you have food at one company, but that you have food everywhere you go. You're only 23 years old, so you want to be stable? Stability requires capital. When you are young and strive to make progress, get through the first few years, and by the age of 30, accumulate enough abilities and experience, you are qualified to negotiate stability. Just like when I interned at a newspaper, I was almost beaten up for undercover visits to shelters, almost provoked by the underworld for interviews with migrant children's schools, threatened by a university president who pointed my nose at me for negative reporting, and asked me to be careful when I went out. Later, I officially became a journalist, crying for an article that wasn't written well, crying for a title that wasn't taken well... Only through these things did I barely feel safe.
Then, I earnestly advised her: Sister, it's better to earn some money first rather than relying on men for youth and life. With your diligence, it's not difficult for us to earn a monthly manuscript fee of 10000 yuan, and you can also accumulate connections. If you want to transform in the future, there are many possibilities
Laozi dug out his heart and lungs, and his saliva was dry. Cherry listened attentively and attentively, and then said, 'I know what you said is very reasonable, but I still believe that marriage and family are much more important than career.'.
So Cherry handsome pursued her boyfriend and her iron rice bowl.
This story has become one of the proofs of my self indulgence and willingness to be a teacher. Always being teased by friends.
2.
Recently, Cherry sent me a text message, Miss Mimeng, can I come and see you.
I agreed. What do you want to eat? I'll treat you.
So we ate hot pot and talked about her recent situation. Originally, the hot pot at that restaurant was really delicious, with duck blood and tofu delicious. However, she cried several times during the banquet, which made it difficult for me to eat happily.
After graduating from Cherry University, I went to a legendary stable company and worked from nine to five, providing my boyfriend with a warm meal.
Not long after, the head of Cherry's department failed in the workplace palace battle, resulting in their department being laid off, and Cherry was assigned to a more leisurely department. The other two people here are both idle and do not work all year round. Cherry plays with himself every day, and the work content is to have a lot of free time and occasionally organize documents.
Breaking through the bottom line of Cherry is that after changing her job, her monthly salary decreased from 5500 to 2500, and Cherry can't even afford to rent a farmer's house. Cherry resigned from her job and started looking for another job. She found that she had limited options. On the one hand, in the past two years of working, she had not learned anything and her life was basically at a standstill. During the interview, she couldn't answer any professional questions asked by the other party. On the other hand, the employment situation has become even more severe this year
Good or bad, this is also a time when Cherry and her boyfriend are in a precarious relationship, and the biggest difference lies in spending money. My boyfriend is a typical Phoenix man who hates women spending money recklessly. Cherry's hair turned white because she was looking for a job. She went to Taobao to buy a fake L'Oreal hair dye for 25 yuan. Her boyfriend said that he was a black sheep.
If the cherry blossom had her own money, she could tell her boyfriend to shut up, but she was unemployed at the time and could only endure it. It's too much without work pressure. She went to a website and earned 4000 yuan per month. She worked six days a week and worked overtime until 10 o'clock every day. She was also scolded by abnormal leaders all day.
Now she has come to understand that earning money is more important than men. She wants to choose a high paying job, but unfortunately there is no chance left.
3.
Actually, every time I see young girls who spend a lot of time and energy researching how to hook up with a golden husband, how to keep their boyfriends unchanged, how to check jobs, and how to fight for mistresses, I really want to say, why don't you let go of this and start earning some money? Spend half of the spirit of fighting with men on work, and your situation will be much larger.
What can one get by earning money? As long as what you do is not crooked, while you earn money, you can also gain a sense of achievement and value, improve your workplace skills, and progress and growth.
When you have money, your living standards improve, and you see more of the world, you have more possibilities. You can find men or not, and you can also meet higher-level men.
In the workplace, the so-called sense of security refers to the ability to find a job with the same income at any time the company goes bankrupt. In marriage, the so-called sense of security is that at any time of divorce, one can afford to have children on their own without compromising their quality of life.
