Post Date December, 03 2023
Most people voluntarily admit their mistakes and mistakes when facing infidelity, but for the victim, this kind of injury is a lifelong scar that cannot be healed, which is also a huge problem and challenge faced by many people in besieged cities today. We cannot live forever in the shadow of others. So, since the mistake has already occurred, we just need to find a solution to restore our original happiness, and there is no need to be a traumatizer.
I cannot fall
There are too many disappointments in this life, but our life still needs to continue. Since we still need to continue, we must forget the unpleasant things, even if we cannot forget them. People cannot always live in their own shadow, and the more pain they feel, the more they need to let go. Therefore, if we choose to maintain a complete marriage, we must move forward with both wind and rain, learn to let go, otherwise, It will completely disorient oneself and lose the courage to manage a marriage.
Do not harm others
The aggrieved party should not just cling to the mistakes of others just because they have caused harm to you. Yes, the other party's infidelity has caused irreparable pain to you, but when you think from a different perspective, what would you think? As long as you are a person, you will definitely make mistakes, because there is no perfect person. In one's life, there are always many multiple-choice questions to do. Can you guarantee that every choice is correct? So, we need to spare people and spare them.
Find cause and effect and solve it
Everything has its cause and its consequences. The same goes for infidelity. There must be a reason, whether it's a family atmosphere, an disharmonious sexual life, or a separation between two places, etc. It's all possible. Knowing your mistakes can make a difference, and there's nothing good about it. As long as we find the reason and be honest with each other, there are no unsolvable knots.
