"Extramarital love is definitely the biggest" killer "in the family. Perhaps some people think it's better to have an extramarital love and divorce. In fact, if it's a woman's extramarital love, it may cause a chain reaction.". "You, your spouse, your family, and your children will all be involved, and none of them will be immune.".
First, extramarital love affects physical and mental health. In reality, when faced with the troubles of extramarital love, women are in a dilemma of not wanting their family to break down, but also preferring to attach to the stimulating extramarital love. In this way, women tend to blame themselves, feel guilty, regret, and cannot get rid of it, affecting their normal life and work, their emotions, and even their physical and mental health.
Second, bruise your husband's self-esteem. Women engaging in extramarital affairs can make their husbands wear "green hats.". If let him know, it will be a pain that is difficult to eliminate in his heart. As a big man who cannot control his wife and leads to a red apricot coming out of the wall, he may feel that he has lost his dignity and cannot hold his head up in front of others, resulting in a loss of initiative and affecting his future social life and work. Individual men with fragile emotions can also lose courage and end in depression, a serious result that is also common in daily life.
Third, destroy the happiness of the family. The occurrence of "extramarital love" among married women often leads to disharmony in the couple's lives, casting a shadow over their originally happy and happy family, leading to divorce. At the same time, due to the involvement of women as "third parties", another family may become restless, and it may also disrupt another decent family.
Fourth, it affects the healthy growth of children. Once an extramarital affair is known to a child, it can be detrimental to the healthy growth of the child. The discord between husband and wife, as well as the cold war, can have a negative impact on children. Because parents are the first teachers of their children, their words and actions will have a subtle impact on their children.