Post Date December, 03 2023
I believe we have all had our first date experiences. The experience of being nervous and not knowing how to get along with strangers will definitely leave a deep impression on you. I was clearly in love with her, but I messed up because I didn't know what to talk about. Believe me, facing your crush, you definitely don't want to mess up your first date. So, what should we talk about on our first date in order to attract them more and leave a good impression on them more easily?
1. Don't ask about love history
No one should ask about their past love history on their first date. It should not even be mentioned until the other party actively shares their past, which is very private and requires each other's comfort zone. Directly asking about love history is definitely not a good start on a first date. (But you can arouse his curiosity)
2. Caring about his family
Don't ask about his love history, ask him if he has any siblings, where he is at home, and how his relationship with them is. This is a comfortable and simple start, and at the same time, you can still know what kind of person he is.
3. You can talk about travel
Travel is always a great topic. From sharing special experiences in the past to going to places in the future, you can learn about a person's preferences and interests through their imagination and experience of traveling. For example, if you are a girl who loves shopping and the other person says that they really dislike Hong Kong being a large shopping center, or if you love adventurous and free sun exposure on small islands, but they prefer eating, drinking, and eating in big cities, you can easily have a simple imagination of the future. (This girl's travel reason is very special)
4. Delicious food is also good
If your first date is a static stay in a restaurant or bar, don't just focus on what you want, easily ask the other person about their preferences, and show your caring side. During the conversation, you can also pay attention to the other party's favorite food and drinks. For example, if the other party likes to eat seafood, you can quickly search for delicious seafood restaurants you know. If your first date was great, you can proactively say that you know which other restaurant is great and prepare for the next possible date!
5. Simple Career Inquiry
It's always good to understand what the other person is doing, what are they doing? Future planning? Previous experiences? There is no need to delve into his daily work style or precise annual, three-year, and five-year goals, but it is easy to understand what he is doing, share encouragement, and discover whether this person's traits are what you like from work.
6. You can also chat with friends
Many girls tend to be defensive towards a man's friends and avoid talking about them. But it's actually a pity. Do you have any good friends? What do you do with friends? You will know how he gets along with his friends and better understand if the guy you're dating for the first time is a good person! Valuing his friends is definitely better than ignoring them.
7. Leisure and entertainment are more relaxed
Do you like dancing? Do you like sports? Love watching movies or liking that person's music? From the leisure and entertainment that the other party usually enjoys, we can immediately know if you two are in sync! More importantly, if you two have similar interests, it can open up another deeper topic for you.
Of course, a good topic is a very important communication process and a necessary item for a successful date. If you want to succeed on your first date and hold hands with happiness, these are essential things.
