Post Date December, 03 2023
After marriage, men and women often have requirements for each other, and there are also some unspoken expectations. Men have various requirements for women, and women demand that they tidy up their homes well and serve their husbands comfortably. So what other expectations do men have for women that they won't express?
1、 The more women love, the braver men become
A man does not reject fulfilling his obligations to his family and women. If he can clearly know how much his wife loves him and how much she is intoxicated with the happiness of living with him, he will sacrifice everything for his family and wife without hesitation.
On the contrary, if a man is uncertain about his family and women's feelings and even has unnecessary worries, he will act like a rogue. When it comes to family and their own women, men like to hear answers like Mrs. Eisenhower's: "The greatest career life brings to a woman is to be a wife
2、 Having a broad mind and truly understanding men's shortcomings and faults
Men attach much more importance to their families and women than women imagine, and they are always accustomed to treating their families and women as safe havens and safe havens. So they hope that this place can fully accommodate their successes and failures, and always open their arms to welcome them back.
3、 Women must be hygienic and love cleanliness
Although they are lazy and dirty themselves, they cannot tolerate a woman who does not wash her face or feet, and remains indifferent to the chaotic home. Because they believe that their family and their women are their true faces.
4、 Men need the title of head of family
Women always like to compete with men on the issue of the head of the family, as if the head of the family can really influence something. In fact, what men demand is just a status. They are so lazy, how can they take on the responsibility of buying groceries and washing dishes voluntarily. It is like in a constitutional monarchy, the prime minister decides everything, but the dignity and prestige of the king cannot be ignored.
5、 Men are afraid of loneliness
Psychologically speaking, men are animals who are very afraid of loneliness and loneliness. Single men who go out for a drink or sleep at their friends' house every night are not necessarily fond of drinking or getting very close to their friends. Their real reason is that they are afraid of being alone.
Therefore, married men have every reason to believe that they should no longer feel lonely and lonely. So when men lose the whereabouts of their women or they return late or even don't, they become frightened like naked nuns in a busy city.
6、 Don't expect men to have the same appearance in their homes
Women often complain about men being different from each other at home and abroad. Why is it that they are always so polite to others and treat me like a tyrant? Why can't they also treat me better. Actually, women don't have to worry about it. Because politeness has always been just a social necessity, and excessive politeness is harmful to the family without any benefits. When a man shows great courtesy towards a woman, it can only indicate that he has lost love for her or done something wrong to her.
7、 Women should not confront men when they are angry
The pressure and hardships that men endure in society are something that women cannot experience, and this negative emotion is likely to be brought home by them. So men often find fault with women or throw tantrums at them without reason. When they get angry, they are not really dissatisfied with women, but rather venting their depressed emotions. At this point, men most need women's understanding and acceptance, and they need women to pay a considerable price of injustice. A tit for tat argument undoubtedly adds fuel to the fire for men.
8、 Men also have jealousy
Men are no less jealous than women, and there are far more men who are prone to life-threatening battles and die under the sword of their rivals in love. If a woman truly loves her man, she should strive to understand the man's mixed self-esteem and vanity mentality, and be cautious in dealing with men's doubts and speculations. Proactively explaining the reasons and process of interacting with other men is not only a genuine understanding and concern for their own men, but also a supervision of women's words and actions.
9、 Don't speak freely about right and wrong at home
Family shame should not be exposed. The right and wrong at home are inherently inexplicable things, and if combined with external rumors and rumors, a man's self-esteem will definitely collapse completely. At that time, even if a man intends to reconcile, it is still difficult to get off. If a woman really wants to solve a problem, her only choice is to close the door and slowly negotiate. Because men's housekeeping principle is: no outsiders are allowed to interfere in their internal affairs.
10、 Don't compare your husband and family to others
In the eyes of men, comparing a woman's own man and family to others is a serious betrayal of her own man and family. They cannot kindly understand women's original intentions and desires, and only subjectively believe that women are criticizing them and expressing dissatisfaction. They will also think passionately, if you are not satisfied, why don't you leave immediately.
Men will fall in love with beautiful women, but they will marry a woman who is more suitable for life. As a woman, don't just make a vase, but be a good helper and friend for your husband.
