As the saying goes, "the relationship between teeth and tongue is as good as when teeth bite the tongue", and the same is true between lovers. After the sweetness of lovers, two people have entered the palace of marriage, and formally entered the plain of life. Every day, they have experienced the grinding of wood, rice, oil and salt, and the marriage has gradually entered the weak period, just like the gear has no oil, and each running-in is a waste of energy for each other. In this way, there is resentment between the husband and wife, and then it evolves into conflict, which will bring great harm to the family and individuals. So what are the types and harms of marital conflict?
One is cold and the other is irritable; If you don't eat hard and soft, if you don't eat salt and oil, marriage will enter a weak period like a gear without oil. Every run-in is a waste of energy on each other, so there will be guerrilla warfare using nagging and complaining as weapons, cold violence that ignores each other, confrontation between members of the united family, and hand-to-hand combat... In fact, in all types of conflicts between husband and wife, the cold war is often the most hurtful.
Cold War
Description: No matter how noisy, noisy or angry you are, I will ignore you. If you scold you or nag you, you will ignore it and completely defend it. There is no emotional or spiritual communication between husband and wife.
Hazard: ★★★★
Cold violence is no less destructive to marriage than hand-to-hand combat. Some hand-to-hand combat is based on the fact that one side has some minor personality defects, and he can't control his emotions, or he loses his virtue after drinking. Many people also repent and make up after physical combat. Therefore, the damage of physical combat to marriage is not direct or first.
The most frightening thing is the cold war. In fact, the cold war is that it does not want to communicate and gives up communication. Sometimes it is even more destructive than hand-to-hand combat. Sometimes hand-to-hand combat is that one party wants to communicate, but lacks methods of communication. It is a very retarded, stupid, primitive, animal-like communication. If it is not really a bad habit, such as fighting once or twice in a lifetime, it is not particularly serious. The most frightening thing is cold violence, Giving up on marriage is the longest and most helpless thing. Giving up is at least finding relief.