Post Date December, 02 2023
Singles Day is coming, and although many men and women are not together, they often play ambiguous. Some are ambiguous in order to get to know each other in the future, while others are irresponsible. But ambiguity is not something anyone can afford. It is a trap, and a woman who thinks she is smart may end up being misunderstood by a man.
The ambiguous period is more impressive than the love period, and the feeling of being aloof, sometimes cold and sometimes hot leaves a mark in one's heart that cannot be erased.
1. Malignant ambiguity can't hurt you
Warm ambiguity is divided into benign and malignant. Benign ambiguity points to love, but whether it can develop into love later depends on the timing, location, and harmony of people. There is also a malignant ambiguity, that is, ambiguity for the sake of ambiguity. In other words, it's like having fun with someone. It's like a banquet. When you go there happily, you see a large table full of delicious food and are about to pounce on it to have a big meal, but are warned that you can only see, smell, and not eat. What a disturbing taste! If I had told you in advance, would you still go?
The scary thing is, no one will ever tell you in advance. The person who likes to play ambiguous (usually a man) - starts with a look of "taking a fancy to you", tossing autumn spinach at you and saying something meaningful to you. "Accidentally," either your shoulder or your finger touches you, causing you to panic and wonder every day, "Did he fall in love with me? Did I fall in love with him?"
Malignant ambiguity is the enemy of love. You think it's love, it's not, and it'll never be. Many people mistakenly believe that this is what love is all about. Knowing that there is no hope, they still indulge themselves in it and waste their good time in vain.
A man plays with ambiguity for his own purposes. Women should not naively assume that only they are playing with this ambiguity, but they forget that the mantis is catching cicadas, and the yellow finch is behind them. The man who plays with ambiguity is the yellow finch, hiding behind him and waiting for an opportunity to take what he wants from you. Anything else, let alone. In addition to being disgusting and ambiguous, the following secret women can't help but know.
2. 99% of men who play ambiguous don't play with just one person
Since they have the intention to play this game, they will play it more thoroughly. Compared to having only one object, men prefer to hover between several women, enjoying the pleasure of being surrounded by flowers. The remaining 1% are heterosexual men who play with ambiguous men, and the probability of encountering this is too low to be negligible.
3. Men play with ambiguity, it's important to play without ambiguity
Play is fun, ambiguity is hell. That's right. In their eyes, this ambiguity is only play after all. Because it's play, it's impossible to be serious, and it's impossible to tell you promises and sincerity. If you choose to be serious, it's natural to see who wins and who loses in the end. Women who want true feelings, once they are with them, 99% get hurt.
4. Men who play ambiguous always think they are right
Men who think they can afford to play with ambiguity always have a bit of arrogance, a bit of narcissism, and a bit of self-deception, thinking that the women around them can be attracted to them, and then reach a situation where they can call, wave, and go. For these narcissistic men, the most powerful weapon that can awaken them is women's loud rejection.
