On a rainy day, Akai bored himself with social updates, watching his friends and brothers go out on dates and flash photos. Suddenly, he felt like a failure. Even if he spent more time learning how to pick up girls and had rich pursuit experiences, he couldn't keep a woman's heart.
Like the sound of rain outside the window, it reminded Ah Kai of a day when he was waiting in the rain downstairs of the women's company, holding a cold American latte in his hand. Originally, this action would be like a prince in a pure love manga, deeply absorbing a woman's heart. Unexpectedly, when a woman saw Ah Kai, her face was more complex than Makaron's, and she awkwardly took the latte.
From that day on, the woman was like a flower melting in a latte, cutting off the news.
Speaking of coffee, Ah Kai couldn't forget it. On Valentine's Day, he finally asked out a cute girl, so he decided to try his best to show off his best; After the two of them sat down in the coffee shop, Akai seemed to transform into a commentator, disdaining the lack of authentic coffee in the restaurant and emphasizing that he used to drink coffee more often in Paris. If it weren't for the face of the playful girl, he wouldn't have disdained entering the shop.
After showcasing his extensive knowledge, Akai began to emphasize his career and social circle, such as which company's senior executives he had worked for and how many business owners he knew. He completely ignored the playful girl's smile and had transformed from sweet honey to expired cheese. Instead, he was intoxicated in his self world of successfully attracting the opposite sex, holding up his coffee cup and saying, Cheers.
Originally, Akai was absolutely certain that he would be able to upgrade from a friend to a lover this time, because he was like Gol Roger in the love pirate king, who had already put all his strengths into this meeting. If you want to start a relationship, come find him!
Unexpectedly, the fact was completely opposite. The playful girl not only blocked him, but also warned the sisters around him, saying that Ah Kai was a strange man; Don't talk about falling in love, you can't even become a friend in the end.
Actually, Akai is not wrong. He is very attentive in attracting the opposite sex and craving recognition from them; It's just that his mistake lies in not starting from the other party's perspective.
For example, getting caught in the rain and other women's affairs can be used during ambiguous or pre dating periods to create a romantic little heart (of course, it's important to be careful not to catch a cold or really hurt the body when using a skin meter), but Akai played it during her first friend period, which can naturally make women feel creepy.
And Akai's display of playful girls is a taboo, because no woman is interested in wasting her youth by listening to a history of boasting that has nothing to do with her; What's even more embarrassing is that perhaps the woman's experience and achievements are more abundant than those of men, which would result in even more deduction of points.
Dear man, it's not that you can't attract the opposite sex, it's just that you should first recognize what attracts women easily.
1、 Reliable sense of security
In love, the vast majority of women value a sense of security, such as guiding the woman to walk on the inside when crossing the road; Or when answering the phone to discuss business, a focused attitude towards doing something can enhance a woman's liking and create a sense of trust. Whether or not she ends up changing lovers, she will not reject being friends with you.
2、 A relaxed sense of getting along
Some men, like the Central Intelligence Agency (CIA), not only pay close attention to women's private lives when they seize the opportunity to talk or meet their desired women, but even send messages faster than playing "The Hornet", making women feel that they are getting along and oppressed to the extreme.
Don't forget, a woman's inner world is wider and deeper than you imagine. To truly enter her heart, it's best to first give her a comfortable state of coexistence; As for the outcome of the relationship, let each other make the decision. Perhaps love cannot be forced, but at least we have had a relaxed and happy time together, leaving behind beautiful memories.
3、 A natural sense of worship
In fact, as long as they are human, they will want to gain recognition from the opposite sex, and if men want to be admired by women, sometimes they should not actively show off, but naturally present their advantages according to the current conversation content.
For example, when two people talk about 3C topics (such as mobile phones, app games, etc.) and a man's profession is an engineer, they can share a piece of 3C knowledge or naturally bring it to their work when developing an app system. By sharing their strengths and charm, they can make each other feel at ease and also naturally generate a sense of affirmation or admiration.
Dear man, if you want to have a happy love, first try to learn from each other's needs; When you start trying to enhance the attraction that the other person loves and feels natural and comfortable, please rest assured that Love is waiting for you at the door.