Post Date December, 03 2023
In today's society, older leftover women can be seen everywhere. Is it really because they are so ugly that no one cares? Or are they not good enough to be left behind? In fact, none of them are. On the contrary, they are more outstanding and outstanding. It is only by falling into a misunderstanding in love that I fall into the ranks of leftover women and cannot extricate myself. Next, let's take a look at some of the misunderstandings in love, in order to avoid becoming a leftover woman.
1. Self psychological mischief
This is a big taboo in love. It's not good to ask a man to listen to you for everything. In love, two people are equal, and it shouldn't be who has to listen to who. Never caring about what the other person thinks, what their feelings, needs, and hobbies will be, they just focus on themselves, and they can't wait to wipe out all the "personalities" in the other person. You think you're creating a "good man" who can accept and look good, but that's not the case. The "tragedy" of love was born in this way, except that one of the protagonists here is himself, and the other must be his boyfriend.
2. An overly realistic psychology
"The right family" is naturally the first choice for love and marriage, which can avoid many unnecessary troubles after marriage. But being too "pragmatic" and having a strong smell of copper will make the other monk confused and confused about whether he is in love with money or people? Maybe even you can't tell where you put your love? If love is in the heart, simple meals can strengthen the body and nourish the face.
3. The psychology of sitting back and enjoying oneself
When Yi Lai reaches out for a meal and opens his mouth, whoever doesn't think about it must be mentally retarded. However, it is not wise to go too far, so that it can only be oneself who will suffer in the end by using it as a scheming and means. A lady lover should marry in a proper way, otherwise it will only scare others away.
