Post Date December, 03 2023
Will you pay your wife? Have you ever thought about paying your wife? Do you think it's a joke? Pay your wife? Wife is not a profession! So, why should I pay my wife? What are the benefits of paying a wife's salary for marriage?
Benefit 1: Paying your wife a salary is an affirmation and respect for her housework.
Although the overall quality of women in China has been greatly improved, and the status of women in society and family has become higher and higher, it is normal for families with "prosperity of yin and decline of yang" to be no longer rare, but even so, many women in China still take "family" as the center after marriage, and they often voluntarily give up some employment opportunities in order to support their husband's career and take care of their children's growth, There is a general trend of "men are in charge of the outside world and women are in charge of the inside world". "Housework" is also their only manifestation of labor value. Following the natural law of "get what you work", the family's proper payment of "labor wages" to their wives is an affirmation of their domestic activities and also a respect for their labor achievements. From this perspective, it is also a matter of course that their wives receive "labor wages".
Benefit 2: Paying a wife can give her more security and sense of security.
After getting married and having children, women spend far more time and intensity on housework than men, and even undertake all the housework. But in real marriage, their efforts are often inversely proportional to their gains. Especially now, the phenomenon of extramarital affairs is becoming more and more serious. Many wives cannot know the specific amount and whereabouts of the "husband and wife's common property" when their husbands divorce after cheating, If you can pay a certain amount of housework wages in the ordinary time, you can also enhance the wife's sense of security in the family, so that their rights and interests can be guaranteed.
Benefit 3: Paying your wife's salary is like saving money in a bank.
I once saw such a true story on a certain media, saying that a famous sketch actor in China paid his wife a little more than a few "salaries" every month when he was rich. Later, the sketch actor's career and income suffered a "Waterloo". At the time of his poverty, his wife took out his "private money" to support his investment and made him "rise again", The actor said afterwards: "Paying your wife's salary is really like putting money in a bank.". It is not difficult to see from this story that when our men are in good economic conditions, they will give their wives a little "labor wage" every month. When you really need money one day, she will certainly not "stand by" and will "help you". After all, women's view of housekeeping after marriage is always more far-sighted than their husbands.
Benefit 4: Paying the wife will make the marriage more stable.
In our marriage life, mutual respect and mutual trust is a very important principle. As a husband, you can "not be stingy" and "not be stingy" in marriage and send a little "labor wage" to your wife every month, which is not only to respect her labor, but also to consolidate her position in the family, and also to practice the word "trust" with practical actions. In this way, she will spend more energy to take care of your "small family", Thinking about "small family" everywhere and letting men stop worrying about family matters will naturally contribute to the development of men's career. With the support of stable economic sources, the family will be much more stable and harmonious.
Admittedly, the benefits I have mentioned above may be superficial or not comprehensive, but in any case, I still insist that, in the age of temptation and the soaring divorce rate, a man who is the main source of income of a family can slightly control his social entertainment, eating and drinking during his normal marriage and life, and turn these money into "labor wages" and send it to his wife, It will not reduce your income, but will only make you reap not only the "thank you" of your wife after receiving the salary, but also the real double harvest of your "career" and "family"!
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)
