During sexual activity between men and women, when a man reaches orgasm and ejaculates, his overall excitement immediately cools down, regardless of whether the other person is his beloved female partner or not. This is because the pleasure curve of men rises smoothly at a tilt of approximately 45 degrees before reaching orgasm. But within less than 5 seconds after ejaculation, it will rapidly decline in a diagonal line of nearly 70 to 80 degrees.
If women have similar phenomena in their sexual physiology, they will not blame men for their coldness. However, the decay time of women's pleasure is slowly decreasing in a curve of around 45 degrees, and the period of immersion in the afterglow of orgasm is also the most romantic and happy time for most women. The decay time of female sexual excitement is generally equivalent to the time it causes excitement, and there is no significant difference in speed.
So in situations where there is a difference in sexual excitement and decay time between the sexes, many women may feel dissatisfied with men who fall asleep or turn their heads to smoke after sex. It is said that some women's level of dissatisfaction can be severe enough to trigger suicidal tendencies. Therefore, the mastery of the afterplay part of sexual intercourse is also a special aspect that must be created and paid attention to in intimate behavior.
The method of post acting also varies from person to person, and the most important thing is for both parties to fully communicate and understand each other's tendencies. Generally speaking, gentle comfort and sweet words are the most effective ways to bring the entire sexual process to a perfect end.
(Intern Editor: Huang Jiazhen)