Post Date December, 03 2023
Compared to male extroverts, female students are actually more introverted in terms of personality. Although there are many lively and outgoing girls, introverted and shy girls like "Sister Lin" are also particularly attractive. There are actually many small ways to pursue introverted girls like this. Below is a brief summary for everyone.
Don't act too hastily
Although there are many scenes in idol dramas where men fiercely attack women as "domineering CEOs," for introverted girls, using such methods can only scare them. Therefore, the first step in pursuing an introverted girl is to actively approach her, make friends with her, and adopt a "heart attack policy", rather than rushing forward to confess.
When introverted girls can adapt to your existence and open up to you, treating you as a true friend. Consider matters such as confession and deepening relationships. It should be noted that when using this method, it is important to control the method well. If it really develops for a simple friendship, there won't be enough time to cry.
Learn to create small ambiguities appropriately
If you want to catch up with an introverted girl, you can only care about her from a personal perspective. In fact, what we still need to do is to create some small ambiguities appropriately and give the other party some small expectations subconsciously.
Of course, what we're talking about is not about rushing up and forcefully hugging or kissing a girl. Instead, choose some small details in life based on the degree of introversion of girls. Below are several scenario references:
1. When the other party is eating, you can suddenly ask them, 'Is that piece of meat delicious?'? Then take the piece of meat from the other person's bowl and look at them with a meaningful gaze. I believe that by coming a few more times in this way, the other party will definitely feel your affection for her.
2. If the other party has heavy objects in their hands, they can naturally take over their belongings. Pretend to accidentally touch the other person's hands, but remember not to exceed 2 seconds during the entire process, otherwise it will backfire. Two seconds can make the other person's heart beat like a girl, but it won't make you appear frivolous. Similarly, when encountering something worth celebrating, you can also hug the other person, but pay attention to the timing.
Always make her feel the uniqueness of TA
The worst thing is to become a "central air conditioner" and have to let her know that you are her own "warm man". For introverted girls, because they also lack a sense of security within themselves, if you can make them feel an unprecedented sense of security, then your pursuit plan is 90% successful.
What way should she feel that you are always unique? Suggestions can be taken from the following aspects. Firstly, on special days such as the other party's birthday, carefully prepare a gift to create a different atmosphere and tell them, "You are different from all other girls to me." Secondly, you can create small surprises for the other party from time to time. For example, if you know that the other party is learning yoga recently, you can consider giving them something like yoga clothes, Enable the other party to feel your attention towards them.
From this, it can be seen that as long as one can fully master the skills, introverted girls are not difficult to catch up with. The key is still to step into her heart, truly consider her, care for her, and be considerate of her.
