Some extramarital lovers have a lucky or indifferent attitude towards this matter, and they feel that they can handle it well, even if they "step on two boats", they can still walk smoothly. In fact, at the moment of extramarital love, the relationship between husband and wife and the responsibilities within the family have disappeared. In fact, the harm of extramarital love can be seen, but not seen; What can be seen is a change in reality, but what cannot be seen is a distortion of responsibility and morality.
Firstly, 'extramarital love' affects physical and mental health. In reality, when women encounter the troubles of extramarital affairs, they do not want their families to break down, but they tend to cling to that exciting extramarital affair, and are in a dilemma of choice. In this way, women are prone to self blame, guilt, remorse, and being unable to get rid of it, which affects their normal life and work, as well as their emotions and even their physical and mental health.
Secondly, it undermines the happiness of the family. The occurrence of extramarital affairs by married women often leads to disharmony in their marital life, casting a shadow over their originally happy and happy family, leading to divorce. At the same time, due to the involvement of women as "third parties", it can cause restlessness in another family and may also disrupt another well behaved family.
Thirdly, it bruises the husband's self-esteem. Women engaging in extramarital affairs will make their husbands wear "green hats". If he were to know, it would be an indelible pain in his heart. As a big man who cannot control his wife and leads to a red apricot falling out of the wall, he may feel that he has lost his dignity and cannot stand up in front of others, resulting in a loss of initiative and affecting his future social life and work. Individual men with fragile emotions may also lose their courage and end up feeling depressed, which is a common result in daily life.
Fourthly, it affects the healthy growth of children. Once a child learns about an extramarital affair, it will be detrimental to their healthy growth. The disharmony between husband and wife, as well as the cold war, can have a negative impact on children. Because parents are the first teachers of their children, their words and actions will have a subtle impact on their children.