The cheating rate of high-income female husbands is four times higher: male self-esteem is injured and it is difficult to maintain marriage

The Financial Times published the article "Women's income affects the quality of marriage", which said that it is difficult for high-income women to find a marriage partner, and when they have a husband, the probability of the husband cheating is four times higher than that of other types of marriage. Now when men choose their wives, most of them are unwilling to choose the type of strong women with higher income and stronger momentum than themselves, which is the instinctive choice of men. Nature endows men with the character of "spear", allowing them to expand their territory and shield women from the wind and rain. This instinct has always been engraved in the bones of men. Therefore, when the relationship is reversed, most men can't accept it and feel that it is too damaging to their self-esteem.

Men like women's attachment

Men like women's attachment, because men treat themselves as big trees and women as dodder, because it can give men a sense of security. When a woman can only live with a man, she will not leave him, because she cannot live without him. So men all like women who are close to others and like the look they admire, which will greatly increase their self-esteem and gain the courage to face difficulties. Men's nature doomed them not to be inferior to women.

Women are too powerful, men have hurt self-esteem

Nowadays, the society is full of yin and yang, although the number of women in China is several hundred thousand less than that of men every year. The rise of more and more powerful women has forced their husbands to be inferior at home. It is true that economy determines family status. Women earn more money and are too strong, which makes men feel useless. They can't look up in front of women, and their self-esteem is greatly hurt. Moreover, the powerful women are used to giving orders in the company. At home, they do not consciously use the tone of command, which makes men more disgusted. They feel that it is inevitable to be angry without face.

I don't feel manly doing housework at home

Men always think that it is women's business to do housework, and men always think that men are in charge of the outside world and women are in charge of the inside world. Therefore, in a man's view, helping his wife with housework is a sign of understanding and caring for his wife. Therefore, if he does the housework alone, he will feel like a little woman. Anyone who thinks he is a man will not like to look like a woman, regardless of character or appearance. Therefore, when women go out to support their families and men iron their clothes and cook at home, they will feel a serious loss of masculinity, so that they lose interest in sex life, and eventually end in divorce.

Powerful women also don't want to marry a person with a lower income than themselves, because she doesn't want to spend her whole life defending his self-esteem. It can be seen that it is important to maintain men's self-esteem in marriage. However, if the woman is too strong, no matter how gentle the woman is at home, her husband's self-esteem will be hurt if she neglects. When women are strong and men are weak, men's self-esteem is very sensitive and fragile, which is related to their lack of stability in nature.