Hu Fei returned home and looked at the empty dining table, feeling extremely dissatisfied. "Where are you? Where have you been? I've all gone home and the food hasn't been prepared yet?" His wife trotted out of the kitchen at the sound, "I'm sorry, but today's meeting at my work unit has been delayed. I'm working on it, so you can wait a moment." "Meeting? What meeting does your small work unit have? I travel outside every day to earn money to support my family, but I can't even eat when I come back. What am I doing?" Hu Fei completely ignored his wife's reasons and kept venting his anger.
The wife's eyes turned red, and the husband's arrogance and unreasonable behavior was not accidental, but rather a "routine.". "She lowered her head silently and said nothing, 'What are you still doing in such a daze! Go cook quickly!' Her wife retreated into the kitchen, 'Hmm! What kind of shift do you want to earn so much money? Just be a housewife at home!' Hu Fei sat down on the sofa and lit a cigarette. 'Where's the ashtray?' Her wife trotted out of the kitchen again and respectfully handed the ashtray to the man.".
After dinner, Hu Fei sat in front of the TV to amuse himself, while his wife was busy packing things away. A man doesn't know which "muscle" is in his mind except for the problem. When his wife wiped the coffee table, he stretched out his foot and tripped the other party, causing the woman to kneel on the ground and overturn the tea cup. "You're so clumsy that you can't even do housework well!" Hu Fei, the villain, complained first. Her wife's patience had exceeded the bottom line. She stood up with tears in her eyes and threw a rag on the man. The man was surprised, but the other party would resist. "Listen to me, I'm not your servant, even a servant has self-respect! I've had enough of your nonsense, pestering, and bullying!" The wife pulled off her apron and rushed into the bedroom.
Hu Fei's attitude changed from surprise to disapproval, saying, "After three days of failure to uncover the house and tile, he is ready to consolidate his" regime. ". However, after a moment, his wife walked out of the bedroom, still carrying a suitcase in her hand. "You can be self-sufficient in the future!" She left home without turning back. Stupid as a chicken, Hu Fei looked at the door and was bewildered
Husband and wife cannot have a master servant relationship
It takes a long journey for two people to meet and get to know each other. The best outcome of this journey is to tie the knot. However, marriage is the end of a bumpy emotional path, but it is the beginning of happiness and sweetness.
Not all marriages are happy, and the factor that determines their quality lies in their marital relationships. The relationship between husband and wife is the most important relationship in the family. In addition to personal and property dependency, what is more important is the kinship dependency relationship between husband and wife that is dependent on each other and nurtures each other. "It is an important factor in maintaining marital happiness and family happiness, while running counter to it can bring the family to the brink of division.".
There are many "fascists" in life, most of them male. These male chauvinists view their wives as servants who "come and go", thinking that if they use their money to support each other, they will have to live according to their assigned roles. Such arrogant and foolish ideas are contemptible. The wife is not a "tool" or a servant. She is the husband's favorite person. If you treat your wife as a housekeeper who is calling and calling, why should you spend time with her day and night? Just hire a Filipino servant.
Husbands and wives should be mutually beneficial, love each other and rely on each other. Their status is equal without class. Everyone has a sense of self-esteem. When you arbitrarily manipulate your wife, it is her tolerance for you, and it does not mean that the other party agrees with this role. "Until your behavior pierces the bottom line of your wife, there is no need to bear it anymore. The woman's counterattack will completely deprive the" slave owner "of all" power. ".
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)