Fool, don't get married in a daze

Because I've been wandering for most of my life, I finally want to settle down and find a way to rely on? Is it because every time I come home, my parents hate iron for not turning into steel, and my relatives urge me too much to get married? Is it because love has arrived, suddenly realizing that it's time to give this relationship a name?

But have you really determined that he is the one who can enter the marriage palace with you?

The reason for choosing to get married cannot be solely because of love. More precisely, it is our wish to form a family with another person and find ways to create a happy and beautiful life together. Every woman has had an infinite longing for marriage since she was a young girl. We must be cautious and cautious when making decisions once in a lifetime.

Sisi always tells her husband that her colleague bought new jewelry today, which old classmate went abroad for a trip, and her friend has recently changed to high-end cosmetics, making her skin look even more delicate and soft

However, every time her husband hears it, he either remains silent, or passes by with a perfunctory hum or digs aside to talk about the company's affairs.

But the more her husband is like this, the more she intensifies her thoughts. My husband is becoming increasingly disgusted with Sisi. He doesn't understand where that gentle and sensible Sisi went when he was in love. He doesn't understand those jewelry brands, nor do he understand those red accents, let alone why a bag is worth tens of thousands?

He only knew that every time she mentioned these things, he felt that she had become a vain force and his self-esteem had been hurt. Her harsh words seemed to mock him for not being able to afford anything.

However, Sisi simply wanted a small gift from her husband. Of course, it would be even better if it were Armani's seasonal new model. But even if it's not, she just wants a gesture, such as saying do you like it? I also bought it for you. Even if it's just talking to make her happy, it's okay.

How could he not understand such a simple and understandable suggestion? But the fact is, he just doesn't understand. You'd better tell him which item to buy at which counter on that street, which mall, which floor.

Men always say that only women and villains are difficult to raise. Women always say that men are lower body animals with well-developed limbs. There are so many differences between men and women. One person thinks I can't understand unless you say it, and the other person thinks they don't understand says nothing.

So, wait until you can accept the differences between you and have the confidence to resolve them together before getting married.

I have a best friend, and my greatest wish in my life is to travel around various countries and feel the wonderful rivers and mountains left by the Creator. She told her husband that after getting married, she will go to Queenstown in New Zealand and spend a few days leisurely in this beautiful town surrounded by the southern Alps.

My husband also agreed well and fully. But after getting married, let alone New Zealand, I haven't even visited a tourist attraction near my home once. My husband said, "I'm too busy with work, let's have some more time

My best friend foolishly kept waiting, and when she was free, she would take a look at some fun and beautiful places, make strategies, and think about going soon. She was also enthusiastic and had a hope for life.

But wait and wait, when she repeatedly reminded her husband, he impatiently said, "Traveling is too expensive, let's save more money for the second old man." She suddenly realized that from the beginning, he didn't have this interruption to go on a trip.

She felt very aggrieved, never missing the monthly living expenses she gave to the second old man, and she dared not break her red envelope during holidays. Why can't even one's small wish be fulfilled?

And my husband's idea is to save the money so that his children can go to school in the future. If the elderly person's health needs to be better or worse, it would be even better if he could save it and change to a larger house for the elderly person. If he could change to another car, the one at home would be a bit shabby. It's really interesting for a family to drive out and play.

Neither of them is wrong, but their ideal marriage is vastly different. They can even understand each other's thoughts and thoughts, but they cannot live together, especially in a marriage.

Don't hold a lucky mentality and think in your heart that if I please him more, he will definitely accommodate me. He said he loved me the most and got married.

This kind of behavior is gradually killing the good feelings accumulated between you and me. Slowly, the tower of love has already collapsed, and in the end, I can only complain and shed tears towards a piece of literary scholar.

We need to compare the quality, size, workmanship, and price before making a decision when buying a garment. How can we decide who to spend our entire life with and make a hasty decision like this? So, fool, don't get married in a daze.