Post Date December, 03 2023
Psychological experts told reporters that the decline in postpartum sexual desire is largely caused by psychological factors. Research has found that during pregnancy and postpartum recovery, women may start rejecting sexual activity psychologically due to concerns about wound infections or fear of physical exhaustion.
Secondly, upon becoming a new mother, women are completely immersed in the process of childcare, and even when communicating with their husbands, the topic revolves around the child, thus losing the sexy needs that women should have, which can also lead to a decrease in "sexual" interest. In response to this situation, Petra Boynton, a sex psychology expert at the University of London, said: "If a person doesn't have the time and energy to enjoy sex, it means they don't have the time and energy to enjoy a better life!" Therefore, it is necessary for new mothers to "recharge" themselves and set aside a period of time every day to separate from their children, even if it is just for the father and child to play at home for a while and go to a nearby coffee shop for a drink, It's good to read a newspaper. Only by restoring oneself from wholeheartedly taking care of the child can interest in the husband be reignited. And children will also receive more love and enthusiasm from both parents due to the nourishment of your love.
In addition, before having children, having sex was natural for both spouses, but after having children, time and energy are often influenced by the children and are not easily controlled. Therefore, new mothers may wish to make arrangements in advance, such as sacrificing some of their own time and trying a one-time life when their children go to bed early at night or at noon.
Many women are also dissatisfied with the changes in their body shape after giving birth, fearing that their husband will not like her body as much as before. In fact, men usually find women who emit maternal radiance more sexy. As long as these erroneous ideas are discarded, new mothers can show more confidence in their sexual life.
