Post Date December, 03 2023
Two people walked into the palace of marriage together because they loved each other, creating a new family, and from then on, there was me in you and you in me. However, marriage is like a cup of plain boiled water, requiring you to constantly add ingredients to make it more flavorful. But if you leave it alone, it will always be just a cup of plain boiled water. So, how do you make this cup of plain water more flavorful? Below, I will teach you ten tips for enhancing marital relationships.
1. Writing Love Poems
Many people believe that love poetry is something unique to their student days. In fact, no matter when, love poetry is the most beautiful way to express my love for you. You don't need to be like Shakespeare, you just need to find sincere and primitive ways to express your love. Try not to use vulgar words and be sure to write something meaningful to yourself, such as the way she smiles. The love words of others may sound pleasant, but they are not yours. So, stick to originality and express unique love in your own way.
2. Embrace
Language is divided into body language and voice language. Voice language can directly express what we want to say, but body language can allow us to experience different feelings. The immense energy contained in the body is unimaginable, and just a hug can make a loved one present a sweet smile on their face. Whether it's sitting on the sofa hugging your partner or letting your child fall asleep peacefully on your arms, giving them a hug and warmth is the perfect way to express love for them.
3. Hand in hand
When we become familiar with each other and life becomes comfortable, these subtle movements of holding hands will be ignored by us. Try holding your lover's hand while shopping, or holding her hand at the dining table. This kind of physical contact will make your relationship more intimate. This is particularly important when you are discussing a difficult argument or issue. When your partner is in a bad mood and feeling down, holding her hand is a tangible manifestation of support for her.
4. Listen to each other
Chatting with others, discussing news, or chatting with friends online are all easy things. When your partner wants to talk to you, you should actively listen, stop what you are doing, and focus your attention here. Listen to what she wants to express, understand what she cares and worries about, or what she truly likes.
5. Massage the shoulders or soles of the feet
Nowadays, whether it's life or work, the pressure is very high. For everyone, muscle soreness is the most realistic portrayal of a tired day. So, it's best to give your partner some shoulder, back, or foot massages to make them feel your love. This is equivalent to telling her that her physical health and comfort are important to you, and it is also a great way to enhance physical fitness and enhance relationships.
6. Dress up oneself
When we fall in love, we always show each other our best selves. But after getting familiar with it, I don't care anymore. The clothes are dirty, the size and size are not suitable, or there are holes in the T-shirt... You may no longer care too much about these. But occasionally dressing up can reignite the excitement you had when you first started dating.
7. Prepare unexpected gifts
Gifts are surprises we give each other. Whether it's birthday, Valentine's Day, or a special day, we will carefully choose gifts to give to each other. But have you ever given gifts on a regular basis? For both the recipient and the giver, an unexpected gift brings the most heartfelt joy.
However, this gift doesn't need to cost too much. For example, giving them their favorite chocolate, a bouquet of small flowers, or a book you know they like, and so on, without much money, you will find that this is also a great way to say 'I love you'.
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8. Proactively doing household chores
A family needs to share household chores together, rather than being solely responsible for everything. For most people, a highly popular gift is to help with household chores. If your partner often cleans the kitchen, you can go and surprise her by cleaning the kitchen for her. If you are constantly suffocated by nagging, then don't ask anything and just go clean. You will gradually realize that there are many small ways to make some people feel comfortable on that day and let them know their position in your heart.
9. Make a special dinner
If you are eating takeout from Monday to Friday evenings. Why don't you cook a special dinner yourself on the weekend. Prepare a special dinner for your lover, you don't need to find any special occasions, nor do you need to be on Valentine's Day or other anniversaries. Including her favorite food, take a few minutes to tidy up the table and play some music. I guarantee you will remember this evening for a long time, even the ordinary thing of sitting on the sofa, which you will still remember vividly.
10. Leave a note in an unusual place
Perhaps your life has become so busy that you find that your schedule rarely includes time with your spouse or children. Why don't you try leaving a note in some places to give them a surprise. As you may know, mothers leave a small note in their backpacks for their children. You can also start here, or you can try leaving a note by the kettle, on the refrigerator door, on the pillow, on the computer screen, etc. Perhaps it can become a "competition" mini game between you, competing who posted the most hidden place!
I love you, these words don't need to be on our lips often. There are many ways to express it, and you need to discover it with your heart.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
