Post Date April, 15 2023
At the age of 25, I have been very tired recently - tired of love. The man I love, Wang, is a married man. As early as three years ago, we established a love relationship. He has always promised to divorce his wife and asked me to wait patiently to marry him.
Not long ago, a new engineer came to our company, surnamed Chen, 29 years old, young and promising, and the company leaders highly valued him. Mr. Chen soon became my immediate supervisor, and we got along well in frequent work contacts. He cares about me very much, and I am grateful to him. Two weeks ago, Mr. Chen wrote me a 10-page "love letter", but I dare not tell him the truth. I have been in love for many years; What's more, the person I love is still a married man! In front of Mr. Wang, I was also nervous and didn't dare to tell him that Mr. Chen was pursuing me. At present, I am in this dilemma.
I understand that my own age is not young, and I should get married and start a family. But what should I do in the face of the "two men problem"?
Miss Wen Juan:
It is a little difficult to deal with the "two men problem" you are facing. You may consider it from the following perspectives.
First of all, as an unmarried woman, it is risky and immoral to fall in love with a married husband. Is the man who goes out looking for love with his wife behind his back worth your love? You should not do anything that is harmful to others but not beneficial to yourself.
Secondly, you should think carefully, if Wang's relationship with his wife really broke down, why did he not divorce? How long will he keep you waiting? This is an unknown number!
Once again, if he wants to divorce because of his "affair" with you, then the guilt of breaking up others' marriage will also haunt you for a long time and make you uneasy.
Finally, according to the marriage law of our country, you and your married husband are not supported by law. Why don't you choose carefree and carefree love and marriage?
In view of the above considerations, it is recommended that you make a decision with Mr. Wang as soon as possible. If you keep on and on, you will suffer chaos. As for the contact with Mr. Chen, you should also be cautious. Don't accept his love blindly or refuse it hastily. It is necessary to make proper contact before deciding whether to choose.
