Post Date December, 02 2023
The phrase 'it's easier to go up the mountain than to go down the mountain' is also applicable to some people related to extramarital affairs. It is not difficult to imagine that many people in extramarital relationships slip into this seemingly beautiful "flower world" due to a momentary impulse. So, when they truly enter this colorful world, when they see their family on the brink of division and see that their behavior has had a significant negative impact, what they want to do is to step back from there.
However, stepping back is not as simple as that. When facing a gentle and devoted lover, many people hesitate again. At this time, they don't know how to break up with their extramarital lover.
Don't hurt his self-esteem
No matter what the reason is, even if you no longer like the lover in front of you at this moment, I hope you don't be impulsive and don't make any actions that hurt the other person's self-esteem during the breakup process.
Because although such actions may appear to make the other person completely lose heart to you, they also cause trauma to the other person's soul and create hatred towards you. We can imagine that after the conflict intensifies, those who may be hurt by you may lose their sanity and make things that we regret even more.
So, when breaking up, be sure not to speak ill of others. The best way is to speak slowly and solve everything smoothly.
A sincere and apologetic tone
In addition to your tone being very gentle, our attitude must also be sincere. After all, this lover has been with you before, and when we separate, we should also give him full sincerity from the bottom of our hearts.
The success or failure of a person in handling things, in addition to their talent and experience, is more important than their attitude towards doing things. A positive attitude will always multiply your success rate.
So, in the process of breaking up, your attitude must be sincere and not false. The best choice is to let the other party truly understand your difficulties and make them agree with your separation.
Do not "cut off the lotus root and thread it together"
We all know that the term 'lotus root is broken and connected' is used to describe the vague relationship between two people that, although separated, still has no decision.
In many breakups of extramarital lovers, there are countless cases of this kind of connection. However, it is precisely because of this that too many people are still struggling in this relationship, unable to find a better way out. They are in a dilemma and deeply experience the various pains of extramarital love.
Attitude is clear, separation means separation, and don't hesitate to act on the so-called tenderness. You need to be aware that such hesitation will ultimately lead to both your marriage and your extramarital relationship losing, and in the end, you will receive nothing.
