Post Date December, 02 2023
Nowadays, more and more elderly leftover men and women choose to choose their partner through blind dates, and of course, many of them have succeeded. However, most blind dates end up being unsuccessful or no longer in contact. Today, let psychologists teach you how to improve the success rate of blind dates.
Firstly, from the female self introduction, as detailed in the self introduction, the success rate of female blind dates is high. A respondent said, "The woman provided detailed information on her interests, hobbies, and post marriage thoughts in her self introduction. When meeting, she also acted the same as what was written on the introduction. I can also know what she likes and wants from the introduction. This will become an opportunity for the next meeting
That is to say, introducing oneself can leave an overall impression on the other party before meeting. Especially in the case of online blind dates, 'how much we can chat before meeting' is usually an important factor in determining the success of the blind date. Therefore, writing a clear self introduction can be said to determine the success rate of blind dates.
A respondent said, "After meeting, we can immediately start chatting and have a great time. It may be because we have sent several text messages before, giving people a sense of deja vu. It is important to write detailed self introductions so that they can become the topic of conversation with the other party
People who use online blind dates often find it difficult to write self introductions because they have too much content to edit. But from the above two interviews, it can be inferred that one should first understand the other person's interests and personality before meeting. In order for the other party to understand themselves, their introduction should also be filled out carefully and in detail. Especially from the second interview, we can see that in order to provide the other party with a topic, it is important to provide a detailed self introduction.
A respondent said, "When you want to send a text message, because the other person has too little self introduction content, you are struggling to reply. Only when you ask other people can you know, you should first enrich the content of your self introduction. Next time, write something that others have not written before. Unlike ordinary self introductions, write your own unique content. Content like 'honesty' and 'gentleness' that anyone can write cannot attract others' attention
Therefore, enriching one's self-introduction does not refer to writing content that everyone knows how to be honest or gentle, but rather to writing something unique to oneself. The success of online blind dates is determined by some text messages exchanged before the actual meeting. In order to 'get to know each other', the first step is to introduce oneself.
In summary, in order to make the blind date smoother and find your significant other, it is important to remember that first, your detailed information must be filled out on the blind date form without any gaps. Secondly, if you are too nervous, you can write down what you want to say on paper to remind yourself. Thirdly, let the other party understand their strengths and weaknesses.
