Love is always just right, one portion is enough, but why are there always so many men who are taken away by a second woman? Perhaps he was captivated by the color scheme. Some of the mistresses were young and beautiful, but the original partner had also been young and beautiful before. Or, what a man seeks is just excitement and freshness. After wandering around, he will still come back. So, when some mistresses want to take over the position of their original wife, most men are still unwilling to divorce, and even feel afraid and want to sever their relationship with the mistress. The original partners can use this to invisibly drive away the mistress, but what if the mistress is just willing to become an underground lover? So how do you drive away the third person who doesn't seek fame?
Even if a young face is fleeting, a woman's taste can be cultivated.
A beautiful woman is equivalent to a man's face. If you can bring face to your husband, he will repay you with face. If you don't maintain or dress up, and you are stingy with your youth, your youth will leave you without mercy. Not all people are born with beauty, and youth cannot last forever, but we can cultivate a unique temperament. Some people are not exquisite women, but their femininity is something that men will never forget. A mistress may not necessarily have an amazing appearance, but she must have more flavor than you, otherwise what would she use to attract a married husband? The third child is so charming that she is still your husband's underground lover without seeking fame. Of course, men are not willing to give up such an opportunity to steal food, so it becomes even more difficult for you to drive away the third child and save your husband. If you are unwilling to change for love, it is really hopeless. How should you deal with the mistress? From now on, don't think about saving money, start investing in yourself, because if you don't spend this money, it will be used by Xiao San. Buy some skincare products to maintain your face, and then spend money to buy some books to read. Moreover, with the rapid development of society, you can also apply for classes outside to transform your personal image... In short, you need to cultivate your temperament so that your husband can feel your unique charm.
Becoming an independent person can create an illusion for your husband and make him feel nervous for you.
There is a saying that goes, "If a woman remains the same, a man will change. If a woman changes, a man's heart will become heavy." When you follow your husband's wishes in everything, he feels that you cannot do without him, so he has the capital to do evil and act recklessly. He thinks you have no ability or courage to leave him, so he will secretly have an affair without feeling sorry for you. If you become an independent person, not only financially independent, but also living independently and with an independent personality, becoming a completely and truly independent person, then he will have a sense of urgency and fear of losing you, and then he will know how to cherish you. When a woman can accomplish everything independently, she no longer needs a man. Giving her husband this illusion will make him nervous and secretly put away his playboy.
Using family activities to disrupt the date between husband and mistress.
If there are children looking for children and no children looking for mother-in-law, learning to play family cards is also a way to drive away the third party who does not have a good reputation. A third party who does not have a good reputation either has feelings for your husband or enjoys the current "prosperity and wealth" life. Therefore, you need to make her lose hope. If you want her to give up on your husband, you must make him agree with her and hurt his heart. Holding family activities from time to time makes it impossible for him to make an appointment with the mistress. For example, asking his husband to go with him on the grounds that his child is going to the amusement park or his mother-in-law is going to have a check-up. This keeps breaking the promise, and if you make some changes to save his heart, the mistress will have no choice!
Seeking pure love without seeking fame is like the plot in a movie. The story of a woman giving up on pursuing her own happy love and becoming a mistress with a married husband is difficult to portray in life, so as long as you use the right method, the mistress is not difficult to deal with.