Post Date December, 03 2023
The following seven "prescriptions" are for all married women.
1、 It's not a good thing for women to care too much about their family. The family is owned by two people and should be managed together
The premise is to think and do for him and his children. Over time, the responsibility of the family will fall on one person. He feels that all this is normal. If one day you want him to do something for your family, it will cause resentment.
Prescription: It is to share family responsibilities, and slowly give the focus to men. It is good to help yourself, and don't have to support yourself. Finally, I am half tired and don't please. Housework is also a part of the burden, otherwise I really think housework is not tiring.
2、 The economic power should be mastered, and the sense of precaution is indispensable
In the past, he always heard that the salary was not enough for his own use, so he didn't want a cent. Finally, he realized that the children would not be raised, because he didn't see that the family had less money. In times of crisis, he could borrow money without him. Of course, he didn't need to repay the money. Anyway, someone in the family paid money, and his money was just enough to please his mistress.
Prescription: Even if the man has less money, he must use it. Although he has less money than he has taken away, he must have a known destination. Otherwise, the woman will work hard to save money to support her family, and the other women over there will use it all. In addition, it is necessary to take precautions in economic aspects. Private money is always available.
3、 Children should be brought together by husband and wife. It is not advisable for single mothers in marriage
Most mothers always take care of their children's food, clothing, housing, transportation and study. They are good at tutoring and so on. Dads spend a lot of time playing the signs of work and entertainment every day. They also think that no one cares at home, so they go outside to find warmth.
Prescription: Don't forget that he is the father of the child. It is natural for him to do something for the child. It is better for him to spend more time with the child than with other women.
4、 You must be healthy and beautiful
The body is the capital, so we must take good care of it. In his words, "Take care of yourself. If you are ill, I won't care about you." When I heard this, I was very angry. Later, I thought it was reasonable. I don't love myself. How can others love you.
Prescription: First, recuperate your body. Health first. Second, dress yourself well. A beautiful person will naturally feel better.
5、 It doesn't matter if you don't work, but you should have your own source of income
It doesn't matter whether you have a formal job. Of course, it's the safest to have a stable job. If you don't, you have to learn to make investments or something. In other words, you have to be able to support yourself.
Prescription: Make investment to continue to ensure your independent life, prepare for work, pay attention to possible investment opportunities at any time, and prepare for possible changes at any time.
6、 We should be blind to his various behaviors
Out of sight, out of mind, can't change him even if you see it, but also make him proud. Look at how good I am. Women at home and abroad are fighting and robbing. It's better to please yourself than to please him. As for what he likes, of course, the consequences must be explained to him first, and then don't say we are unjust.
Prescription: Do what you should do. If you don't take him seriously, you will have your id.
Don't forget Sister Lin's point-blank sentence in the Dream of Red Mansions: Either the east wind prevails over the west wind, or the west wind prevails over the east wind. You can be the master only when you are no longer willing to be under pressure.
7、 Don't care too much about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
It is an old saying that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies. Prescription: If you can't get along, let it go. How do your parents-in-law like to play and let them play by themselves? Don't take the move, don't deal with it, because when you find that you take the move, it will be troublesome, just like a person can't sing a play. If you ignore their tricks, they will feel that they have no taste, and there will be nothing to toss about.
Finally, after changing all the above, I found that the man had lost his mind again. He didn't plan to divorce, and said he wanted to grow old with me.
Sequela: trust is no longer 100%, but it doesn't matter, because women have learned to love themselves, which is the most important thing for women.
