Post Date December, 03 2023
As the saying goes, "The river and the mountain are easy to change, but the nature is hard to change." It means that if a person's personality is fixed, it is difficult for the outside world to think about how to change them, which is basically equivalent to being foolish and dreaming.
Therefore, women, wake up, no matter what your partner promises you or promises you to change yourself, it is impossible to achieve it. When girls fall in love, they still choose reliable men. A stable and reliable man will make you feel more at ease. Let's take a look at what aspects of men's habits can never be changed in a lifetime.
1. Don't expect men to indulge your bad habits in life
Most girls are very concerned about personal hygiene, especially when exercising in bed, but there are extremely unique phenomena in everything. Some women do not pay much attention to their personal hygiene, and there are also many bad habits in their lives.
In the early stages of love, both men and women tolerate each other's bad habits. They can silently help you tidy up your room or perhaps wash your smelly socks. However, once they know that their girlfriend's status is unshakable, they will find ways to limit and transform you. This is a common problem for all men. Although men are careless, they are unwilling to spend their lives with women with bad habits, especially when in bed, Seeing you messy, any interest will disappear without a trace.
2. Don't expect men to acquiesce in dating your old lover
Women are inherently amorous, especially when encountering old lovers, they often pretend to be amorous, thinking that a man who has had a relationship with them will always have an emotion in their inner world, thinking that a man who has loved her will still love her. This is not a common disease among men, but a common disease among men and women.
Whether it's being dumped or dumped, most couples are still willing to keep in touch with their ex boyfriend and girlfriend after breaking up. But a man's inner emotions are extremely selfish. He can allow himself to meet his ex lover privately, but he cannot tolerate you going to meet his ex boyfriend.
3. Don't expect men to always believe your lies
We all have some white lies in love or marriage. Although lies are white, they are still lies. Don't expect men to always believe your lies.
Women with love experience know that although men cannot help but deceive, they are definitely not so easy to deceive. Although men also like to listen to sweet words, it's not that men don't know the deceit of your sweet words, but they don't want to expose you. Who said they love you so much?
4. Don't expect a man to actively show love to you in bed
Most women believe that no matter how capable a man is in bed, it's no use because the vast majority of women need a man to tell them before going to bed, are they willing to make any sacrifices for her? If it's just for fun, many women will leave you unless there is a transaction.
The fact is, few men will actively show their love to you in bed. It's not that men don't want it, but when a man's desires come, he can't hold back, let alone sweetly talk to you and actively show love.
5. Don't expect men to love you forever like love
Women are more realistic than men, and when they fall in love, they will consider the daily necessities of marriage and not just want to spend time together like men do. Therefore, a woman's love affair can take place at times. After getting married, women tend to think more of daily necessities. Any hope that their wife can still be as sweet as when in love is childish. The only effect of a happy marriage is to catalyze love into family relationships.
A man looks at the freshness again. After falling in love, the freshness has passed, and he will not love you as much as in love. So, women need to find ways to keep their love fresh and make you always fresh in front of them.
6. Don't expect a man to let go of a woman who has changed her heart
Women know how to deal with men who cheat or cheat, so when men approach women with a tough attitude, they usually fall into the trap of revenge. Women with low intelligence will make a scene, while women with higher intelligence will separate but never divorce. When they drag their mistress into a yellow faced woman, the man's interest will naturally disappear, and then such promiscuous men will have to wait for the woman to fix them. Similarly, men will not let go of a woman who has changed her heart.
7. Don't expect men to define the future as imminent
Female friends often ask men about their plans for the next few years when they are in love, hoping to hear about their grand plans and make their future more secure and confident. But remember, don't expect men to define the future as imminent.
Generally speaking, a man's definition of the future is no more than a year, and any future plans in terms of romance only refer to the things that need to be done within the year. Women, on the other hand, refer to the future, which can be 50 years or even a lifetime. When a man falls in love with a woman, he may only think of brief intimacy, while women may fantasize about going from love to marriage to having children, and then, the two of them will work together until they reach a white haired age.
Men and women are different, and women should never impose their own ideas on men, let alone from their own perspective, because men's thinking differs greatly from women's thinking. If you love him, don't force him to do something he doesn't like. Let him show his love in bed, don't expect it!
