My mother-in-law tried her best to force my husband and me to divorce. After discovering my secret, she came to apologize and asked me to remarry

From the moment I married my husband, I knew that my mother-in-law didn't like me. My family is from the countryside. I went to college through my own efforts and have my own stable career, but my mother-in-law is still not satisfied. She always satirizes me and says, "If you want to fly to the branch and become a phoenix, there is no door". She always finds fault and stabs me. Fortunately, her husband loves me and often helps me to say good things, which makes her mother-in-law scold him everywhere for being unfilial. I don't want my husband to be caught in the middle. I choose to automatically block the sarcasm of my mother-in-law, thinking that as long as I have children, my status may change.

Contrary to my wishes, after three years of marriage, my stomach still hasn't moved. My mother-in-law hates me more and more. She visits the neighborhood and scolds me as an old hen who can't lay eggs. This is an insult to my personality. I cried with my husband to relieve the depression in my heart. My husband wanted to talk to my mother-in-law, but I held him back. This would only deepen the conflict between us, and she would only be satisfied with having a baby.

In order to survive, I have searched all kinds of folk prescriptions. They are three kinds of poison. Sometimes, if I take too many drugs, my face will become swollen. My mother-in-law has never loved me and scolded me for what I deserve. I can bear it again and again. In the past few years of marriage, my resentment can be said to overflow. Finally, one day the war broke out. She pointed at my nose and scolded me for not laying eggs. She spent so much money and married a guy who lost money. I pushed her angrily, "Divorce, divorce your son now". When she heard of divorce, she was excited and told me the ancient saying, 'A gentleman's words cannot be recalled. Whoever does not divorce will be his grandson'.

I am determined to divorce, and my husband has no way to take me. We have been too depressed these years, and I don't want to live like this again. My mother-in-law regards me as a machine for giving birth to children. Without children, I am like a rotten man. My self-esteem is so small in her eyes. My husband and I went through the divorce procedure, and my husband asked for an equal share of the couple's property, which made me very happy. After completing the formalities, my husband asked for a break-up dinner, and I agreed. When I left the door, I suddenly fainted.

When I woke up in the hospital, I saw what the doctor told my husband again. It was too far away to hear clearly. After the doctor left, my husband came to me excitedly and seemed to forget that we were divorced and no longer husband and wife. He held my hand and cried excitedly. "Yes, yes, we have our own children." This is the news I have been looking forward to for a long time. However, it really came, and I was not excited at all. I asked my husband to take me back to my mother's house. The child is mine, and it has nothing to do with your family. His face suddenly became very bad. He couldn't stand me. He sent me back to his mother's house.

The next day, my mother-in-law, accompanied by her husband, came to my house with large and small packages of gifts, went straight to my room after entering the door, took my hand and apologized to me, which really surprised me. She laughed and cried, like a mental patient. When she said let me remarry, I let her out, I never want to see her again. I thought she was aware of her mistakes, but I didn't think she was coming to the children. After my mother-in-law left, my parents also came to persuade me to remarry. They can't let the child be born without a father. They also said that your divorce is not a disagreement between you, but a disturbance caused by your mother-in-law.

Teacher, my heart is in a mess. I know that I am disappointed by my husband, but I don't want to go back to that home. Every corner of that home is full of scenes of her scolding and insulting me. But I can't bear to think of my husband's lost eyes. What should I do?

Reply from the consultant:

Since ancient times, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a major headache for people. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is derived from the contradiction between husband and wife, and the feelings will also be weakened. You have been married for many years, and have not had a child. Grandchild is very important in the eyes of mother-in-law. Seeing others lead your grandchild for a walk, your heart must be lost. She is really excessive. She did not insult people as she wanted, and the management of emotions was improper, resulting in increased resentment between you.

Now that you are pregnant, she immediately changes a person to pay attention and bow her head to admit her mistake. All these behaviors are directed at her grandson. Your parents are right. You can't have a child without a father. After all, your relationship with your husband is still there. But you should consider whether your mother-in-law has the idea of valuing boys over girls. If so, it's OK for you to have a boy and the world is peaceful. What if it is a girl? According to her temper, it is bound to make people turn upside down, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be staged again.

It is suggested that even if you want to remarry in your heart, don't rush to remarry. After all, you have just divorced, let them cool down for a period of time, let them understand their mistakes, communicate well with your husband, and reach the conditions for remarriage. As a family, you should live together peacefully and respect each other. If she recovers after a period of time, you should live separately, so as not to make everyone uncomfortable under the same roof.