The strong desire of a man to monopolize can even affect his marriage. Unless he knows your past like the palm of his hand, he will never give up. In fact, his original intention was just to gain a deeper understanding of the woman he loved, to dispel doubts and curiosity in his heart. Therefore, you may as well take it easy and share your past that can be "publicly disclosed" to comfort their hearts, so that the sky between them can become clear again.
Perhaps some people will insist that men have no right to inquire about my past. This is actually unreasonable favoritism towards women. Nowadays, men do not care about anything except love, but rather care about everything because of love. Women should have a new recognition of this, and should not let their anger go and ruin their happiness in front of them.
In addition, there is another possible motivation, which is that this man may have had a tragic experience of heartbreak. He is interested in his current girlfriend's past, mostly because he is afraid of repeating it. We can categorize it as the second situation, which is another type of "courtship declaration".
If he always praises other women in front of you - he wants to emphasize that your relationship is already deep
Moderate politeness symbolizes a distance, which in turn creates a sense of beauty. Maintaining good manners is even more necessary in love and marriage.
In the early stages of sexual interaction, generally speaking, both parties will be very reserved and polite, rather than being rash or reckless. However, when they reached a certain stage of coexistence and both sides' defenses were lifted, the problem arose.
The most typical manifestation is that your boyfriend often casually mentions the strengths of other women to you, such as saying ×× Her clothes are fashionable and generous ×× The makeup technique is really skilled... wait, for you as the other party, this is the most piercing topic, and why does he compare himself to other women? What a shame! But he ignored your anger and continued to talk eloquently
In fact, there's no need to attach too much importance to what these men say, so why not just listen to them? Do not hurt each other's emotions as a result.
When a man talks about other women, he simply sees them as the material of your conversation, with no intention of criticizing your clothing, temperament, or makeup techniques, nor does it mean that he wants you to become a woman of the 'her' type. His intention is to hope that you understand and confirm that your relationship is already extraordinary. Perhaps he thoughtfully imagined it for you and mistakenly believed that he was providing a topic suitable for women!