Post Date December, 03 2023
After 14 years of marriage, her husband told her that she had a lover. Moreover, the lover showed greater generosity and tolerance than she did, and was willing to voluntarily withdraw from the dispute.
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After 14 years of marriage, we became too familiar with each other, so I couldn't escape my eyes when there was a slight change in him. From setting the phone to vibrate and putting it in the pocket of my underwear, even my text messages have been deleted from the phone. Coupled with the unnatural nature of sexual life, there are also some detailed changes. It makes me feel that my husband has been mentally and physically derailed.
It took a month to adjust my mindset, and then spoke to my husband in a calm tone about my questions. He remained silent without even a word of excuse. After talking through the night for several days, my husband finally couldn't resist it. He admitted that he liked an unmarried girl 11 years younger than him and had a physical relationship. I asked him, are you because of sex or love?
He said there were both. I asked him if he wanted to marry this girl after divorce, and he said it was impossible because it wouldn't last long. And before he slept with this girl, he told her that it was impossible to marry her, and the girl knew that. This year's Valentine's Day, they also made an appointment to spend it outside the city. The cruelest thing is that my husband returned the day before the Chinese New Year's Eve. I couldn't get home until the thirties because I was working in a field.
My husband told me that this girl let him return to his family and she left automatically. "My husband also cried and said, 'She forbore not calling him for seven days in order to make me have a good Spring Festival.'". "My husband said, 'I'm not half as tolerant as she is. What qualifications do I have to comment on her?'". At that time, I simply collapsed. For 14 years, I have been doing housework, taking care of children, and working in other places to earn money. I am under a lot of pressure and have been away alone for 3 years. "He happened after I left last October, and I only had a few months of dating with this girl.". However, in his mind, this girl is a hundred times stronger than me.
My husband has proposed a divorce, and although I am very painful, I also agree to divorce. When he saw me in such pain, he said that if I could tolerate it a bit, he would be willing to start over with me. However, I can't get along with him as I used to.
"What should I do? My son is 13 years old, and he still doesn't know what he's going to face, and his husband says he won't get married again after his divorce."—— net friend
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