I have been hurt in my relationship before, and I spent two years healing myself, whether it was long or short. In fact, a man's heart is more fragile than a woman's. Once a man changes his heart, he will give everything, but once a woman changes her heart, she will walk with determination and leave no trace of worry. So what kind of blow is a man most afraid of?
1. When a man is sarcastic and sarcastic by a woman, for example: "Without me, there wouldn't be your today!" In this way, love is first and foremost a form of respect. If you don't respect him, how can you cherish him? If your efforts stem from willing love, then you have no mood to worry about gains and losses; If you have already begun to care about your own efforts, it means that your love is already lacking in weight. At this point, calculation is possible, but knowing it well is sufficient. It is absolutely not advisable to claim debts with a straight and righteous attitude, as it will only accelerate the evaporation of your already precarious love.
2. When women believe that their men lack a sense of security: women always hope that their men can give them a sense of security, but what is "security"? Is it when you are being bullied that you can stand out? Or do you spread all your grievances on me when you're feeling angry outside, becoming your "vent"? Women just need to listen, love, and attention from men, but men also need to understand and be recognized. So women should not always think that their men lack a sense of security. All you want is that responsibility, that companionship, that love?
3. When a man is doubted by his own woman: the honesty and responsibility that marriage requires. Once a woman begins to doubt his own man, the man will feel very painful and even have difficulty speaking. For example, "Who sent this text message?" Don't be suspicious between the couple. If it's like this every day, it's going to be difficult. Xiaoma still said, "Don't easily flip through the other person's phone. If you can't see what shouldn't be seen, you're not happy; if you can't see what shouldn't be seen, he's not happy!" Once this man is suspected by his own woman, he is very painful and hopes that female friends can reflect on themselves.
4. Men's sexual ability is denied by women: denying a man's sexual ability is the biggest insult to him, especially a simple and rough denial. Even if you refuse to ignite yourself to please him, you can slowly increase your desire. Even if you really don't want to force yourself, you can find a reason not to be overused to alleviate it. A categorical refusal not only affects his mood for a while, but also affects his sexual function.
5. The woman asked, "Who do you love more, me and * * *?": The mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationship is an important component of whether a marriage can be harmonious. Love each other is the only way to think for each other, not only for you and him, but also for your mother-in-law. Love is mutual, and it is only when you love and trust her that this emotion can be feedback to yourself. So, by treating your mother-in-law as a lover, rather than a rival, you won't be able to ask such questions.
6. Women deny men's development prospects: when two people come together, they must build a happy family. Since choosing to hold hands requires mutual support and trust, when a woman believes that her man has no future development prospects, he loses the motivation to strive for it and breaks the can. So men need encouragement from their loved ones, and this warmth will only stimulate their potential. Don't easily deny your man, always believe that your man is the best and most outstanding.