Post Date December, 03 2023
Some people say that men's cheating is a kind of betrayal, and women's cheating is a kind of awakening. However, no matter men or women, it is humbling to affirm their value by cheating. Women's cheating may be more attributed to men, especially the big men in China who have been ruled by the traditional marriage concept for many years.
There are three kinds of cheating and one kind of trust crisis. Most of the audience who have seen "Chinese Style Divorce" will feel aggrieved for Song Jianping. Obviously, they did nothing, but they were bitten by their wife Lin Xiaofeng and had an cheating behavior. However, Lin Xiaofeng found the clues several times and finally got to the point of divorce. Does Song Jianping really have no idea of cheating? He had fantasies about beautiful, independent and strong female colleagues and neighbors. According to his good brother Liu Dongbei's theory, this is a kind of derailment - heart derailment. Because you have betrayed her!
Men and women enter the era of cheating
Betrayal between men and women can be divided into three types: physical betrayal, heart betrayal, and physical and mental betrayal. Usually people care about the first and third, and ignore the second. But let me say that the betrayal of the heart is far more serious than the betrayal of the body? Who can guarantee that he will not have a moment of impulse and occasional fire in his life? The betrayal of the heart is different. Its nature is the same as the betrayal of the body and mind. In terms of my values, it is not as good as the third one because of its false morality and its inhumanity: your heart is not with her, and your body is also with her, which is not only unfair to you, but also a deception to the other party. An insult.
There is no great relationship between cheating and morality. No matter what kind of cheating, it will destroy the contract that love is exclusive. It will cause a crisis of trust between husband and wife and lovers. It is the crisis of trust that destroys marriage and love. When his body and mind derailed, he said it was "thirst quenching" and "disinfection". "Quenching thirst" is to meet a woman who is completely different from his wife, and bring him novel sensory feelings; "Disinfection" is his spiritual life divorced from reality at his lover's place. They said the dirtiest and messy words hidden in the bottom of his heart. The dirty words made him reborn and purified his soul. A very decent excuse.
Perhaps because of Yan Shouyi's boldness, the film "Mobile Phone" was defined by the official experts as "low style" when competing for the Golden Rooster Award. However, this so-called "low-key" film has won the box office glory. At least this shows that the people are facing the reality, even though Taoists try to avoid it. The audience rating of the "derailed" TV drama "Chinese style divorce" is very good. A few years ahead, isn't "In the Mood for Love" just a derailed movie? On the poster of "2046", a new old movie released by Wong Kar Wai in 2004, Tony Leung lies half naked and shows another appearance of cheating.
Women are unfaithful like men. There was a preference for men over women on the issue of infidelity. The culprit of family breakdown was men, not women. However, the surprising reality is that there are more and more women with different feelings.
It is still rare for women to cheat, but now the proportion of men and women to cheat is half. The secret life of wives: why do they cheat? All the time, all the books and surveys have said that a woman is like a juggler. She can't drop a ball at work, housework, children, and husband. She can only press the washing machine switch with her residual energy at night.
But now, they can find all kinds of opportunities to wear their best LaPerla underwear. 60% of the surveyed women who date their lovers in the hotel admit to having extramarital affairs, and 90% say they have no sense of guilt. She believes that women cheat in order to pursue four things: self recognition, sex, access to power, and love. They have no sense of guilt because they have been disappointed in marriage. When they wake up, they want to foul. In a specific context, such as "my husband doesn't care about me", "I am attractive", and so on, more and more women dare to admit that they are cheating.
Most women do not think that cheating is moral corruption. On the contrary, they think it is their right. This also means that they will not feel guilty. Many housewives are unwilling to say that this is cheating. They are feelings, not just sex. I once tried to explain to my best friend, but she said, don't explain, you are trying to justify selfishness. Maybe she is right. But these women do feel young and their lives are full of hope. They admit that this is the pursuit of personal satisfaction. If the husband knows, he must be particularly injured, but he knows us and can understand our approach.
Some people believe that cheating gives women control over marriage and can promote marriage. The shocking remarks brought Heyn abuse and death threats, but some women who had experienced adultery swore that the adultery did promote the health of their marriage life. Women always want more attention and love from men, even those who are happily married. Rebecca Ruth, who had an affair with Beckham, had this idea. She is smart, beautiful, sexy and tasteful, but she needs to get more such comments. For her, cheating is not just for sex. She needs more men to praise her and love her, especially Beckham, the best, most handsome and richest man in the world, to prove her charm.
Women always have a way to conceal the derailment and coordinate their dual roles, but later found that the derailment was actually a car that could not be stopped. The most important reason why many people are unwilling to face the problem of female cheating is that it has nothing to do with morality. Women's infidelity means that they have invaded the traditional field of men. After the infidelity, women enjoy the same rights as men - they have financial resources, can travel, stay late at the office and go home, and can participate in entertainment and parties.
In this man's world, women who cheat feel like men. Every woman who goes out of the wall has her own reason. She once asked a married woman, what do you think of the red apricot coming out of the wall? Her answer was "need". When she asked why she needed it, she said that "need" is "need". Maybe every woman who goes out of the wall has its own reason, just as the following classification. But if the back of happiness is not happiness, it is better to think twice before acting.
