Post Date December, 03 2023
Walking on the street, we often see couples or couples with high women and low men. Occasionally, it is accompanied by pointing out, "Surely the man has more money!" "It is estimated that the woman has few needs."... In the traditional biological sense, the love between long and short legs seems to represent a kind of disharmony. Can you accept that he is shorter than you? Do you mind if she is taller than you? What determines the length of a relationship?
Zheng Jiaqian (female), 35, Personnel Department of Public Institution
Long and short foot love? "Oh, your words are more elegant. Actually, men are short. I should have a say in this, because my husband is shorter than me. We almost broke up over this matter at the beginning.". "Although I don't look very beautiful, I was taller than other girls when I was studying, and my neighbors praised me when they saw me, 'This child is big and good-looking!'" I didn't understand when I was a child. Anyway, some people were very proud of me when they praised me, but my parents were very worried, 'How can I marry a young girl in Shanghai if she grows so tall?' "
Not to mention, there are not many tall girls among locals of our age, so at first few boys dared to pursue them, and it seems that you are more powerful. My husband is 1.68 meters, 4 centimeters shorter than me. At first, my family disagreed, thinking that men who are shorter than women always look different. But when I thought about it, it didn't matter. As long as this man treats me well, works steadfastly, and can live a good life, it's enough. Speaking of this, my husband is indeed quite good. He has been married for nearly 8 years and has always been very accommodating to me. Although not as tall as I am, I still have a sense of responsibility and a particularly good temper. I never get angry with me. Sometimes I tease him and say, "Why don't you lose your temper?" He jokes, "What's wrong with you? You're so tall, I can't beat you." It's also interesting to think about it. Do you mind if I ask if my husband is shorter than me? To be honest, I have also asked myself. Men who are very tall at first glance seem to have a good accent. "I have a girlfriend whose husband is handsome and tall, but she has a bad relationship with her husband and wife. She quarrels all day long. She still admires me and regrets paying too much attention to my appearance.". My husband and I have a good relationship, and we live together. What's the use of being nice? I know whether I'm happy or not.
Li Li (male), 37-year-old chain restaurant manager
I came to Shanghai after graduating from college. It's not easy for me to become a shop manager, starting as a shop assistant. I've been in love two times before, and both broke up because they thought I was short. My hometown is Hunan, where the boys are not tall, like my 1.68 meter stature is normal, but the girls here seem to be relatively tall, and their height requirements for boyfriends are also relatively high.
My last girlfriend had the longest conversation, probably for nearly two years. She was from the Northeast and worked in Shanghai. At first, she was a bit concerned that I was from the South. She thought I was short, thin, and hesitant. Later, she might have been moved by my sincerity and accepted me. "She is very straightforward and we can talk quite well together. For the first half of the year, there was no problem getting along. However, once we went to the store to buy clothes together, she took a look at a dress and wanted to try it on, but the dress was placed relatively high. I was thinking of borrowing a pole from my boss, but a boy next to me took it down with a stretch of his hand and gave it to his girlfriend for a try. Later, the dress was bought by someone, and she complained very much about me.", I think it's all because I'm not tall enough. To be honest, I was also a bit uncomfortable at the time, and height was not something I could decide. Later, although she didn't mention it again, every time she saw anything on TV that would increase the height of a device or promote it, she asked me if I wanted to try it. I was somewhat repelled in my heart, but on the surface, I pretended to be okay and said perfunctorily, "It must be fake, how could it be possible." Anyway, later on, she would always point at me about her height from time to time, and whoever's boyfriend is taller; "Who broke up? Because the other person was short... When she got angry, she spoke very loudly and hurt people. Later, she also broke up.". Anyway, my current idea is that in the future, I will definitely not find girls taller than myself. If I really can't, I will go back to my hometown to find them. It's better to make a lot of noise every day than before, and be rejected by others. I can see clearly that emotions are not conditional, and neither height nor age is a problem. But when it comes to myself, everything is a problem.
The editor has something to say
Is the length of a relationship or marriage really determined by a man's height? Although there is no particularly precise theory or practice to prove the connection between the two, in primitive societies, strong men tended to be more capable of hunting and protecting their families, and were more likely to win the favor of women. It is likely that human aesthetic standards for men evolved from that time.
However, in modern society, men have long learned to protect their families in different ways. Enterprise in their careers, loyalty and consideration in their emotions, or a sense of responsibility for their families can make their significant other feel secure. For those of you who have been in love due to height issues, you may wish to reflect on your love history for 3 minutes. The problem between you is really, just, due to height? The true determination of the length of a relationship or marriage is not the height of the body, but the height of the heart. After thinking this way, your answer may be different.
