Post Date December, 02 2023
Love Psychology: Don't hide anything important
1. Tell the other party about your family's problems earlier
If love is based on marriage, it is inevitable to solve the problem of family. Relatives who are too far away need not be involved for the time being. What we need to explain to each other is about parents, brothers and sisters, and close relatives. Find an opportunity to introduce your family.
Don't think that as long as two people fall in love, they have no relationship with their respective families. This idea is very dangerous. After all, marriage is not as simple as love. Tell the problem earlier. Before getting deep into it, both parties should consider it clearly, and be responsible for themselves is also respect for him.
2. There are diseases that affect life or some troubles of their own
Marriage is the life of two people who have no connection at all. Under this premise, there are some things that cannot be concealed. Such as debts, loans, etc. The property debts before marriage are all personal things, but if you plan to repay the loan together after marriage, you should make the other party prepared in advance.
There are also some genetic diseases or infectious diseases that cannot be concealed. Even if you don't think it's a big deal, but if it can't be cured in the future, it will also bring a burden to your partner. Tell him to be prepared.
If you hide it in advance, once the other party knows it, you will be greatly hit. If you tell him at the beginning that there is any problem that two people can solve together, it will not lead to a rift in the relationship between them.
Love psychology, some things are better not to say
If it is a personal problem that does not affect your life and you don't want to let the other party know, it is better to keep it in your heart.
1. The past love experience should be buried in the heart
Perhaps the most troublesome thing between lovers is whether to tell each other about their past love experience. In fact, the best way is not to say anything. If the other party has to know, not saying anything may make him jealous. If you say it all, it will easily cause jealousy.
It is difficult to make clear suggestions, but as an indicator, it is very wise not to say what he has not done. The root of jealousy lies in feeling that you have lost to your predecessor.
Although everyone is curious and wants to know about the other party's past, they will be troubled and entangled after knowing it. If you don't want to make your lover feel bad, don't let him smell your sweet love in the past.
2. Tell him what will make him sad
If something you hide is painful for you, you'd better not let him know. Think about it carefully. Which one does he love more, you who have no secrets or you who tell him the secrets?
He may have such a reaction. When you tell him the secret in your heart, he is very happy. You can confess to him, and the relationship between the two people becomes closer.
But if it is something that will hit the other party, it should be considered carefully.
First of all, you should think clearly, confess to him and tell him your secret. Just your self satisfaction? It may make you feel relieved, but it may add pressure to the other party's spirit, so you should be self-control.
It is also a kind of love to walk through life with unspeakable secrets. Don't let the annoying things become more complicated, and don't let your love become heavy because of the old things.
3. Don't pester yourself with questions
There are many couples who have agreements, but don't hide anything from each other. But this is different from talking to the other party about everything. In particular, some people need to keep their work secret and do not discuss with their lovers; If you really need to explain something to you, the other party will definitely report it clearly to you.
Don't feel cold about such a lover. If you don't get an answer after asking, blaming and quarreling will only make the relationship worse. If the lover really doesn't want to say, don't force him to respect and trust him.
No matter how ardent love is, it also needs distance, which can be reflected by those unspeakable secrets. Sometimes, some bad words in the heart will make the relationship between two people more stable and intimate. Rather than trying to find out the past hidden by the other party, it is better to cherish the present and create your own little happiness.
