I was pregnant at the end of the sixth year of marriage. I was excited to go home and report the good news. I saw my husband and woman naked in the bedroom

From love to marriage, my husband and I were very smooth, and our parents were very optimistic about us. The two were classmates in college and experienced the purest love experience on campus. After graduation and stable work, we got married. After marriage, we didn't consider having children for those who just started work.

My husband and I don't have a solid family background. We have to work hard on our own. In the first three years, we worked very hard. Our husband and wife worked together and lived carefully. We saved a down payment for a house. After a brief decoration, we finally had our own nest. Day by day, I began to plan to have a baby. My parents urged me to have grandchildren on New Year's Day, which made us so embarrassed. People who didn't know the situation thought we had a problem with fertility.

I told my husband my idea and he agreed. I put the contraceptive condom at home and asked my mother how to keep fit and prepare for pregnancy. I long for the joy of being a mother, but I don't want to be treated unfairly by God. After several years of pregnancy, I haven't seen a baby. There is no happiness in marital affairs among us. Most of them are routine tasks for pregnancy. Sometimes my husband takes the trouble to sleep with me.

The doctor said that the problem was me. I was under too much psychological pressure, and my physical quality was not good. The doctor suggested that I take Chinese medicine for recuperation. I drank those bitter soup every day, and the whole person felt a lot of prostration. My husband had to go to work, and had no time to take care of me. My mother-in-law was also not good. I went to my mother's home to recuperate. He came to see me as soon as he had time, and stayed with me at my mother's house when he came on the day off. The relationship between traditional Chinese medicine, my complexion is much better, and my body has gained a few pounds.

A month ago, my mother took me to have a physical checkup. The doctor told me that the effect came out and I could not take any medicine. I looked confused, and he said, "Congratulations on your pregnancy". I couldn't believe looking at the doctor. He pointed at the test sheet and told me word for word I was so excited that I burst into tears, and my efforts in the past few years were not in vain. Finally, I was given a child. Just came out of the hospital, it was 4 o'clock in the afternoon, and I was not in the service area when I called my husband.

When I got home, I was restless and wanted to tell my husband at the first time that if my mother didn't stop me from eating, I would go home with an empty stomach. It was eight o'clock when I got home. Standing downstairs, the light in the bedroom was on. I didn't want to quicken my pace to feel at home. I want to surprise him, quietly open the door, gently open the bedroom door, and shout: surprise!!! With a woman screaming, I fixed my eyes on her husband and a strange woman who were doing that kind of thing naked.

I was shocked for a long time before I reacted. I went up and tore the woman's hair. My husband pulled me, and she ran away hurriedly with her clothes. I cried and slapped his face. I threw the test sheet in his face and shouted hysterically: divorce. After that, I turned around and ran away. He pulled me back and asked me to listen to his explanation. He said that it was because of my pregnancy that he was in a terrible situation. He just flirted with that woman to vent his desire. Let me forgive the baby for his face.

How can I forgive? I worked hard to conceive our two love crystals. He went to sleep with other women. It has been a month since the child grew up in his belly day by day. I don't want to do it. This child didn't come easily. But when I think of his husband's behavior, I hate to gnash my teeth. What should I do?

Ask the consultant to reply:

After six years of marriage, you want to have a baby. You are under the pressure of pregnancy difficulties, and you also pass this anxiety to your husband. You have turned the best way of intimacy between husband and wife into a routine task, which will inevitably reduce a lot of fun. You didn't worry about his feelings for the sake of the child. When his mood changed, you went to his mother's home to recuperate, which gave him the opportunity to cheat and lay the groundwork.

Now, your wish is fulfilled, but your home is gone. It's a pity to think about it. Children are hard-won to cherish, but whether marriage will go on depends on your two attitudes. Good luck.