Post Date December, 03 2023
My husband has many advantages and few disadvantages. But his most fatal flaw always haunts me
Xu is trying to maintain his consistently good image. My husband looks more like a humble gentleman in front of me, not only showing initiative in many things, but also being a bit polite to me. This makes me feel a bit "ethereal". It's really lucky for me to meet such a handsome, honest, and burly husband in this life.
However, although others are very humble, they never give up on their "chauvinism". Many things have that kind of flexible persistence, and my ideas are difficult to penetrate. He likes to "make his own decisions", and he basically has the final say in everything at home. I don't care about this, after all, is he a big man? Moreover, he has been very successful in many aspects, and I even have some admiration for him.
But as long as I mention his shortcomings, he becomes particularly selfish and eccentric in my eyes!
It's like this, besides earning enough face in daily life, my husband treats me the same way in bed life. This big man has a terrifying desire to conquer, and I always have to meet some of his needs.
Actually, satisfying him is equivalent to satisfying myself. But many times I am already satisfied, but he is still not satisfied. And at critical moments, I always like to be called 'Dad', which is really frustrating. I have seen a perverted man, but I have never seen someone so perverted as him. A good husband tends to be a 'father' instead of a good one, which is really speechless.
Later on, I pondered this matter and came up with an excuse for him. It should be that he was already much older than me and had a strong desire to conquer. He was a successful man himself, and I was a woman nearly 10 years younger than him, which sparked his eccentric behavior. Although this excuse is barely understandable, many times I still hold it to heart.
After all, since he first made this request, I have felt particularly incredible and embarrassed, but in order not to dampen my husband's emotions, I reluctantly agreed to him. I didn't expect him to come even more fiercely later, I really couldn't resist it.
I consulted with multiple health experts online about this situation, and many people answered that it is innate, a habit, and can also be considered a disease. But it has to be adjusted by oneself, and hospitals cannot completely improve.
This makes me very discouraged. I had endured for so many years, but now I finally have the mood and courage to speak out. However, his strange habit cannot be improved. How can I not be sad?
As the saying goes, "Every family has its own difficult to read scriptures," my husband's behavior should be what I am destined to bear. Although I personally don't believe in fate, I really can't explain why I met such a person or such a thing. Moreover, it's not worth divorcing for this matter. He's a good person himself, and he cares about his family and treats his children well
All these advantages and disadvantages are more substantial and grand compared to each other. But when it comes to being alone, the thought of my husband's strange behavior makes me feel really uncomfortable. I only hope that one day when medicine becomes more advanced, I can cure his quirks, because I really like him who is usually healthy and humorous!
