I married my beloved wife. I was so angry that I gave her a slap in the face because of her drunken words on the wedding night

On the wedding day, I married my beloved woman. The excitement was beyond words. My wife and I have been in love for three years, two of which are in different places. The reason for my work is that I often go on business trips, sometimes for three months or half a year, and talk with my wife, basically by phone or online video. She didn't complain, but supported my work very much. She said that men are ambitious and don't miss the future for children and girls. I was moved by her knowledge and reason. I worked hard and looked forward to marrying her one day.

"The emperor does not live up to his heart". My efforts were not in vain. After two years of hard work, I was promoted and paid a raise. I was transferred back to the headquarters and ended the long-distance work with my wife. I bought a house of more than one hundred square meters with my savings for several years and my parents' help. After a brief decoration, I was ready to marry her. The wedding was held in the hotel. She was beautiful that day. I can't recognize it. Her father handed her over to me. Under the auspices of the master of ceremonies, we got married, promised each other and exchanged rings.

When we got married, their family didn't want much. They just gave us tens of thousands of dollars. After all, we just bought a house and our parents are old and have no financial resources. All this is the consensus reached by my wife and her parents through communication. She is really sensible. On the wedding day, relatives and friends were present, and none of them stopped shouting and drank a lot of wine. The wife has a poor drinking capacity. She feels a little dizzy when she gets drunk. After seeing off the guests, I simply cleaned up. I couldn't wait to enter the bridal chamber with my wife. I waited for this day for three years and was filled with excitement.

Her face was flushed with drunkenness, and the light shone on her face, which was very quiet. After taking off her clothes, I entered the state. When she was very sad, she cried and laughed. I thought it hurt her. Concerned about her, I asked her "How are you?"? She giggled and said, "Very good, you are much gentler than xx". At that time, my eyes were black, as if I had been hit in the head.

I shook her and asked her to explain exactly what was going on. She was frightened by my violent temper, sobered up a lot, and told the truth, "Two years ago, my predecessor and I met by accident and did something that should not be done. Only once, but in my mind was the scene that could not be forgotten that night. After drinking, I couldn't help saying it.". I was full of anger and couldn't help flashing her a slap in the face. Five fingernail prints were printed on her face in an instant.

She cried bitterly and cried that it was not easy for her to wait for me and hope for me, but because of one of her mistakes, she even fought hard. She put on the quilt and sobbed and fell asleep crying. I squatted on the ground depressed, unable to calm down, and my efforts over the years could not resist the temptation of loneliness to her. In the days to come, how can I go on? I'm in a mess.

Reply from the consultant:

Hello. The reason why a husband and wife have an affair is that they don't feel emotional comfort in the other side and don't get timely care and consideration. Especially for couples living in different places, the couple's life is an important factor to maintain their emotions. When you work outside and communicate with your wife through the internet and telephone, she is psychologically satisfied, but not mentally and physically satisfied. In a society with many temptations, it is easy to fall into the wrong zone and make wrong judgments. You are married, and she knows her mistake. Take a step back, and it will only end in tragedy.