Post Date December, 03 2023
The disconnection technique is not unfamiliar in rescuing love. The correct use of disconnection methods can revive a "dead" love. So, how should we use the "disconnection" technique correctly before truly rescuing love?
If you want to disconnect, be ruthless and don't make too much difference between what you say and what you actually do.
Many people always use the guise of disconnection to delete various communication methods, no longer inquire about their/her news from friends, etc., but in reality, they secretly follow each other, browsing their social media, spaces, Weibo, etc. countless times a day, and even after reading them, they don't forget to delete their records. I just want to say that you are completely deceiving yourself, okay? Moreover, once you notice signs of a new relationship with the other person, everything in your heart is upset, your heart beats a hundred times and your breath accelerates. You really want to make a phone call to interrogate him/her, which not only harms your health, but also makes the other person think you are playing around. If the new love is fake, your mischief is even worse, and the new love is real, then your mischief is in vain. So, if you want to use the technique of disconnection to save love, the first step is to resolutely disconnect (reference: How to completely disconnect in saving love?) without leaving any trace.
Repeatedly advancing and retreating, it is inevitable to regain love.
Breaking the connection does not mean staying out of touch with the other person, but rather making them understand the importance of you. Starting from disconnecting from the other party, once the other party proactively contacts you and you begin to interact, you can take the initiative to attack. At the beginning, the normal means of recovery is to attack. Interact appropriately and not too frequently, causing him/her to resent again. Focus on caring and considerate gentle attacks, and do not overly demand criticism. Create a relaxed chat atmosphere and guide the other party to reminisce about the sweetness of the past. It varies from person to person and can be flexibly mastered by oneself. If the proactive attack is found to be ineffective after a period of time, it is advisable to try a strategy of taking a step back and not actively contacting the other party through phone calls or text messages. Once again, disappear from the other party's sight and try to see if the other party will actively seek you. Because you have always been proactive, he/she will think that you have always been there, so he/she cannot feel that he/she still loves you. By repeatedly advancing and retreating through such means, the other party will definitely be teased by you, and that's when you break the mirror and reunite.
Don't try to use the past to 'kidnap' the other party.
In your eyes, it used to be so beautiful. You hope to evoke memories of the other person by talking about the past, but in their eyes, the past is the past. Talking too much will only make them feel disgusted and have the idea of leaving you faster. Besides, don't keep asking the other person whether they really love you or not, have they ever loved you this stupid question. If they love you, will they still break up? If I love you, I won't find new partners, if I love you, I won't cheat on you, if I love you, I'll tell you loudly, and if I love you, I won't be cold and violent.
Perhaps some people may ask, what if there is no emotional connection after disconnection? True love cannot be driven away or separated, unless he/she has never loved you, or if he/she is an experienced lover who has already mastered love. What is your value if you keep connecting and go on trying to retrieve and beg for love? Where is dignity? Broken connections are the rebirth of your love, and using them correctly will give you the opportunity to intersect and pave the way for saving love in the future.
