Post Date December, 03 2023
Love is easy to get along with, and many lovers change their minds or lose their initial infatuation when they are together. This is not a flower's heart, it's just a matter of nature. How to save an ex boyfriend's heart? In the final analysis, it's about learning how to get along with him and making him believe that because of you, he will become better and more satisfied with his life state, so that he can have you in his heart. Let's take a look at how this article teaches us how to save an ex boyfriend.
Here are six tips on how to save your boyfriend's heart
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Understand why your boyfriend has changed his heart
It is often asked why it is the boys who actively pursue them, and the boys who first change their minds? Boys are more proactive than girls because they have a stronger desire to conquer, and what they actively strive for can more satisfy their sense of conquest than what they bring to their doorstep. Boys tend to change their minds because they are more rational and know how to let go of things that are not good for them.
First of all, you need to understand the root cause of your boyfriend's change of heart. Is it due to external competition? For example, there are girls who are more advantageous or more attractive to him. Or do you indulge him too much and don't know how to say no to things he doesn't know how to control? For example, if he likes to play cards, which leads to waste of youth and failure in his career, you not only do not stop him but also unconditionally satisfy him financially.
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Manage love with a family oriented attitude
Some girls will feel when they fall in love, "I'm not his wife, it's none of my business to care about him. If he doesn't get it right, he still hates me for being wordy. It's better to fall in love and have an elegant relationship." Actually, it's not the case. Everyone wants to become a better person, and everyone wants their life to become better and better.
For example, he likes playing mahjong, and when he comes home at the end of the year, he finds that his income is spent on mahjong. "He can't control himself, so he hopes you can stop him properly and improve his bad habits so that they won't remain empty for a year.". "And whether you feel troublesome or love him too much, your stance is not as firm as he is, and you still unconditionally meet his needs as long as he has them, even taking your own money to help him.". At first, he also felt that you loved him very much. After a long time, he realized that he could not have a positive energy life with you, so he judged that you were not suitable for marriage, and it was reasonable to want to break up. If you want his heart to follow you for a longer time, you need to demonstrate the attitude that your wife should have, dare to say no to things he does not do well, and assist him in improving. He feels that he has made progress with you and can make life more normal. How can he change his mind under normal circumstances?
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Understanding
Many things can be considered from the perspective of the other party, and everything can become harmonious. Understanding is the first thing that affects lovers who want to blossom and bear fruit. When meeting small disagreements, change your mindset and understand that the other person has let go of yourself; When encountering major differences, take a step forward and find an opportunity for two people to sit down and have a candid conversation. Perhaps only after knowing the true thoughts of the other person can you realize how unnecessary their arrogance and prejudice are, and that irreconcilable issues are only issues of communication and understanding.
After understanding, you also need to learn to understand the other person. When the other person encounters a bottleneck in life, encounters something or someone that is not satisfactory or desirable, you should not only understand the other person, but also help them analyze the reasons and guide them to find points to break through the bottleneck or change their mood. "You've done this, and I believe it's time to save your ex boyfriend's heart!"!
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Tolerance
No one is perfect, and even ourselves have our own dissatisfaction. Don't do to others what you don't want, learn to be tolerant towards your boyfriend. For the bad habits that he cannot change, you should change yourself to accommodate his shortcomings. "He can naturally tolerate your eccentricities relatively, and if you tolerate each other for a long time, it can lead to a virtuous cycle.".
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Gentle and coquettish, using softness to overcome hardness
Women should be gentle in love, and acting spoiled is better than blaming. Especially if your boyfriend has a soft rather than hard personality, gentleness and coquetry are more useful. As long as you are within your control, in everything you do, use softness to overcome hardness, and he will be gentle and elegant.
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Love is giving, making love easier and happier
The reason you feel that your boyfriend has changed his heart is because you feel that your efforts have not been rewarded as they should be. Let me teach you a sentence: "Giving in love is your own business, and whether you give back or not is someone else's business." Don't worry too much about your boyfriend's feedback in everything. Be happy to give and be yourself, making your love easier and happier.
To achieve the above six points, for you who are principled, considerate, gentle, lovable, and have no regrets, your boyfriend will have no time to cherish you, and the possibility of changing his heart will be greatly reduced. Perhaps he will also be nervous and excellent, and you will abandon him and work harder.
