Introduction: Every man is afraid of being hooded. Do you know how smart men prevent this phenomenon from happening? Let's take a look together.
1. Have more time together.
The traditional Chinese concept holds that men lead the outside and women lead the inside. This understanding provides an excuse for men to often stay out or even stay up at night. Many women manage household chores, as if their stronghold is at home. But if a woman stays at home alone for a long time without the company of a man, she will feel lonely and uninteresting. After a long time, one will think of finding companions to relax or participating in social activities, and going out from home. Under the psychological influence of being already lonely, women are likely to be tempted by other men when they go out.
Because of this opportunity, the chances of having an affair also increase. If a woman doesn't go outside, why would she have an affair? So, to prevent women from having an affair, men should first pay more attention to their families, provide comfort to women, and let themselves stay warm at home after leaving home. In this way, women naturally reduce the chances of having an affair.
2. Occasionally request to attend my wife's party.
If a woman always has activities and you feel uncontrollable and unsure about her whereabouts, you can temporarily request to participate in her activities. There are some activities that you can take your husband to. If your wife is going out for an affair, she naturally cannot find an excuse to refuse your participation at the moment, even if it is an excuse, sometimes it will be very reluctant. If you don't regularly participate in your wife's activities, then naturally you will have a deeper understanding of her interpersonal relationships.
It is possible to know oneself and the other. If the wife has no extramarital affairs, moderate participation in her activities can improve the relationship between the couple. If the wife has ulterior motives, they can also be detected and prevented in a timely manner.
3. Make your female relatives partners with your wife.
There are several benefits to doing this: firstly, it can truly integrate the loved ones of both parties, making them as close as one family. Instead of being separated from each other and burying each other. At the same time, in daily life, provide more care and mutual support to eliminate loneliness. Another benefit, of course, is to change the wife's daily social environment, which reduces the possibility of infidelity. Also, family members can play a supervisory and information transmission role. Although these do not require deliberate arrangements, they are conveyed through the daily words and actions of loved ones.
4. Preventing wives from becoming leaders without reason.
If the wife is not a capable person in the workplace and does not have any special relationship background. And suddenly become an important figure in the unit or a popular figure in the leadership, often accompanying wine, playing, and business trips, then you need to pay attention and make more question marks. At this point, your wife often says that you need to work overtime, so you need to be more mindful. If my wife used to have missed out on talent, but now gold is finally shining, then there's no need to worry.
5. Pay attention to any changes in your wife's lifestyle.
Once a woman has an affair and develops extramarital emotions, it will naturally not be peaceful. If a man cannot be discovered for a long time, it can only be said that he is too foolish. If a woman is outside and occasionally engages in extramarital sex with others, often improvising and ending later, it will not affect the normal lives of both parties. But once a woman has feelings outside of marriage, there will definitely be significant changes in her life patterns. For example, phone calls, text messages, going out patterns, and mood changes, etc. Therefore, when a woman has an extramarital affair, she should initially strive not to change this pattern, but as time goes on and the relationship deepens, it becomes difficult to maintain this calm. When women often make excuses to justify their actions, as men, they need to pay more attention.
6. Make yourself better.
Men cannot bear the responsibility they should bear, and women are naturally prone to cheating. For example, in today's society, the responsibilities that men have to bear are not insignificant. Buying a house, raising children, caring for the elderly, and so on, some men even have to take care of their wives. When men have limited abilities, sometimes they may not be able to take on the responsibility of supporting their families or allowing women to behave in a grand manner. In this situation, if the relationship between husband and wife cannot deepen enough to tolerate or ignore these situations, women are highly likely to seek help from outside. The biggest resource and effort a woman can make for external assistance is likely to be physical and emotional. So, if men make themselves better and don't let women worry about these aspects, naturally, it will reduce the possibility of women cheating.