Post Date December, 02 2023
If marriage is happy, then there will be misfortunes. No matter what happens, it will eventually lead to the separation of two people from lovers to marriage. There must be an almost irreconcilable contradiction between them. How to save the broken marriage at this time? However, no matter what the contradiction is, after marriage, it is no longer a matter of two people, but two families or even more families will be affected. So trying to save the current marriage, even if it has become fragmented, is the idea of most people, then how to save the broken marriage? Only by taking reasonable and correct measures can the whole thing go smoothly and achieve the expected results.
How to save a broken marriage
1. Play the emotional card with the beautiful memories of the two people
From falling in love to getting married, there must have been many romantic or tortuous things between them, but in short, they are unforgettable. No matter what the reason is, the whole marriage relationship is finally broken, but at least those memories are still there. Those unforgettable experiences that the two people have experienced together cannot be forgotten with the passage of time. As long as there are memories, as long as those memories can also have emotional impact, they can be a good tool to save the marriage.
You can take each other to places such as the places where they first dated, places with deep memories and beautiful memories. In such a place, they can recall some unforgettable common experiences, and these experiences must play an important role in their hearts. In such an unforgettable place, tell some unforgettable stories about the two people's vows at the beginning and the unforgettable events they experienced together, which will certainly ease the tension between the two people.
Adjust your attitude, what kind of contradiction happened between the two people, how deep the injury is, and who committed the more serious mistake. These are not the key points, nor are they things that need to be paid attention to. What we need to do now is to save the broken marriage, so we should try not to mention the previous contradictions. Don't mention it doesn't mean ignoring and forgetting. It's just that in the current environment, it's better to avoid some negative emotions and talk about some pleasant experiences with each other. It's more helpful for the two people to calm down and have a peaceful talk.
In the process of conversation between the two people, put aside the existing contradictions for the time being, make a good analysis of the causes of the current situation, and find out the real contradictions between the two people can better help reduce the occurrence of such contradictions in the future life. At the same time, it is also very important to put forward the following beautiful memories of the past and the present, and play more emotional cards. It is impossible for the two people to break their hearts after marriage for such a long time.
2 Use the current relationship and persuasion between relatives and friends to play the kinship card
Marriage is not just a matter of two people. Since marriage is recognized and protected by law, they also have corresponding responsibilities and obligations to undertake, so a marriage involves a lot of things. Both their own relatives and the relatives of the other party have become a close family because of their marriage. If they have children, they should also consider the children more. Their marriage involves too many things, so it is worth saving better.
For example, relatives and friends, who marry and gradually become a family because of their acquaintance, such a relationship will be greatly affected by the end of their marriage. The direct relationship between the two families and the indirect relationship affected by their marriage are all factors that need to be considered. Use these factors to play the family card to let the other party know the importance of saving the current marriage, Let the other party know that marriage is not just a personal matter. With such pressure, they can better promote their willingness to make efforts to recover.
Couples with children need to think for their children to save the broken marriage. No matter how old the child is now and how mature he will become in the future, it is hard to imagine the pressure and injury that the child will bear when his parents are divorced. What is the so-called current divorce has become a normal phenomenon and should not be labeled. You should not give up your own ideas and freedom in order not to hurt your children. These are all bullshit. Your children are your own flesh and blood. Who cares if you don't care, who cares if you don't care, and why do parents make some sacrifices for their children?
Some people say that marriage without emotion is not necessary to continue, and the breaking of marriage is also related to emotion to a great extent, so how to resolve the emotional crisis of marriage and make the family harmonious? But as I said before, marriage is not just about feelings. It also means responsibility, a responsibility to the whole family. Since I chose to take this responsibility at the beginning, I should continue to play it, no matter it is playing the affection card or the family card, I just hope I can do my last to save it again. After all, it is really not easy to have a marriage, and it is really worth cherishing.
