Post Date December, 03 2023
Although not everyone has the experience of falling in love, experiencing it will definitely bring a different state of mind. Perhaps many years later, you will still be in love with each other, or perhaps you are already a glass heart, and once your heart is broken, you will no longer think of each other. But no matter what, you must understand that if it weren't for the other person, you wouldn't understand what love is like. If it weren't for the other person, you wouldn't know what it means to be in a breakup. The key is how to rebuild confidence after a breakup?
If the person you are looking for is really a high-quality lover, and they give up on you, it is really helpless because they have higher pursuits. If you blindly cater to the other person, over time, it will become increasingly stressful. Actually, suitable love is not tiring. So, you have to believe that sometimes letting go is a form of liberation, love that cannot be squeezed in. Why bother pursuing it? There are many beautiful things in the world, who can know that the love waiting for you at the next station will be even better? Since the other person is so excellent, why not take them as role models and hone yourself in reality, even if you are heartbroken, you still feel like you haven't loved the wrong person. Because the other person has helped you find a role model and made you strive to become a better person! In this way, when you keep striving, you will eventually achieve something that can hold your face down and establish your own confidence.
Confidence is never innate, but sometimes it is blind. After experiencing a breakup, you will understand that loving someone doesn't necessarily mean you can force it. But confidence may be lost due to setbacks in life. At the same time, you will also realize that the confidence in your past life was sometimes overly blind, as there were too few experiences. When experiencing a breakup, one's emotions towards oneself are also a precipitation. I will understand what it feels like to be rejected. When you learn to take things easy, it is a form of confidence in itself. Life won't lose everything just because you lose someone. But from then on, we became strangers to each other. If handled well, perhaps we can still be friends calmly after breaking up. Being able to calmly accept the current situation is not necessarily a form of rationality and composure? Confidence requires the composure and tranquility that have been honed by reality.
If the soul wants to grow, then falling in love is also the best experience. Having experienced sadness, one can better understand what true fate is. Some of the fate you think is actually just a coincidence, while the true fate always comes suddenly and unexpectedly. If one day you encounter a more ideal love, you will find that your past breakup has made you a better person and taught you how to love someone with all your heart. Just put your heart into everything, and as for the outcome, follow the will of heaven. Love is an unknown number. When you come out, you will understand that sadness is just a past tense style, and living happily is the psychological quality you should have.
Falling in love is an experience, and experience drives the growth of a person's soul. When you experience emotional decline, you will understand that confidence is always cultivated from setbacks, and this is a compulsory course in life. Once you understand the meaning of setbacks and establish strong confidence in yourself, you will be grateful for those failed experiences. Today's bad things may turn into good things tomorrow.
