Post Date December, 02 2023
Desire and true love are easily confused, especially in the early stage of a relationship. These two emotions will make you feel the happiness you have never experienced before, wonderful and pleasant. However, if the two remain unclear, the partnership may be affected. The following summarizes the differences between the two to help you clarify whether you have touched the truth.
Different dress attitudes.
People in desire always dress well. Obviously, there is no harm in dressing to make the other party feel good. Especially on the first date, both parties want to make a good impression on the other party. However, if you dress like going to Paris Fashion Week every time you go out for a date, it may not be true love. After all, this kind of dress requires a lot of energy and money.
When you really fall in love, you may wear your pants backwards. The night before the date, you usually don't think about how to dress up, but go to the supermarket to prepare some ice cream, cereal, chocolate, etc. for the two. Because you love each other, you will pay more attention to how to make each other comfortable.
Whether to face up to the other party's mistakes.
Desire often ignores the stupidity of the other party, such as the attitude towards money and whether to treat others well, but when a relationship is on the right track, these may become major principled issues.
When you are in love, you will point out their mistakes. If they love you, they will accept your constructive opinions. But this is usually not to change each other, but to encourage each other to become better themselves. Is it pleasing or sincere when speaking. In desire, you will only say what the other party wants to hear and always want to please the other party. When he asks you a question, you prefer a safe way of answering, although this answer does not well express your feelings and thoughts.
When you meet true love, you will try to express yourself truthfully.
When you disagree with the other person, you will make it clear. Having different views with your partner does not mean that you are inappropriate, but only that you are different. A healthy debate helps each other see things from a broader perspective.
Do you think the other party is perfect.
In your desire, you will think that the other party is the perfect god or goddess, without flaws and flaws. But the fact is often that there are shortcomings behind perfection that you don't want to face or don't want to face.
When you love each other, she is like a goddess with broken arms. She is not perfect, but real. When you are with her, you don't need to pretend, and you won't feel tired. Is his understanding superficial or deep. People in desire don't really know each other. Of course, you may know his favorite color, favorite food, etc., but these are superficial things, and you haven't found the deeper things of the other party.
How to judge whether you are really in love?
Whether to endure loneliness for you
Two people love each other, no matter how well the other opposite sex shows, how to use material vanity interests to lure, they will not be moved by it. No matter how lonely and lonely you are, how warm the opposite sex is, you will always have only your loved ones in your heart. It is the root of love to endure loneliness and temptation. If you have said so many sweet words, vows, and even passionate in bed, but you can't stand loneliness, temptation, and betrayal easily, then such people will bring you endless pain and hurt even if they are shy of flowers and flowers. It is wise to stay away as soon as possible.
Are you willing to tolerate and tolerate each other
In the relationship, we all need to tolerate and tolerate each other, otherwise this relationship will be unsustainable. To judge whether you really love each other, a very important question is whether you are willing to tolerate and tolerate each other. If you are always haggling and haggling in this relationship, then you are definitely not true love. True love has nothing to do with calculation. True love is that you can put down your self-esteem and so-called face for each other, and be willing to tolerate and tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings. You are willing to blend in with each other, adapt to each other actively, and become better yourself because of each other's existence.
Are you willing to spend time with each other
A man should at least be willing to spend his time for you. He should understand romance and spend most of his time with you to kill your loneliness. Because time is also money. If a man speaks a lot of sweet words and says how much he loves you, but is unwilling to spend money and time for you, then stay away from him and get close to him after he knows how to love you.
Do you care about your mood
When you are in a good mood, you will find that he is also in a good mood and will talk to you about some happy topics. When you are in a bad mood, he should be quiet. Finally, he will comfort you and make you happy after all the people comfort you. When you are bullied or wronged, you will find that he is very angry, and he will have a feeling of pity for you, and his mood will be affected by your mood.
