Post Date December, 02 2023
I often hear wives complain that after entering middle age, my husband seems to be less interested in her "sex". Is it because he no longer looks young and has a deformed figure, or is he having an affair? It is normal for a wife to worry about this, but it is not always for this reason that men experience "sexual boredom" in middle age.
At around the age of 35, men's physiological conditions begin to decline from peak to peak. After the age of 45, they often feel that their energy and physical strength are not as good as before. When they are still doing the same work as when they were young, they often feel tired or powerless. Middle aged men are often the backbone of the company or unit, worrying and burdened every day, and maintaining complex interpersonal relationships among colleagues.
In family life, there are old people and young people, and they worry about everything. In the family economy, they find ways to generate more income for the family within a reasonable range. Amidst the contradiction of decreased energy and physical strength and increased burden, middle-aged men often feel physically and mentally exhausted, while also exhibiting various signs of low sexual function, memory, thinking ability, etc., often leading to a lack of self-confidence in middle-aged men.
Since the above changes are an objective reality that middle-aged men cannot reverse, as their wives, they should also understand that complaining is better than understanding. On the basis of not understanding her husband, the wife's coldness towards her husband can lead to a series of negative emotions such as anger, anxiety, depression, and corresponding behaviors such as cold faced confrontation and malicious remarks. In this situation, there may be an argument between the couple, which damages the relationship between the two parties, or adds to the husband's troubles, exacerbates the wife's anger, worsens the family atmosphere, and is of no use.
It is beneficial for a wife to provide understanding to a middle-aged husband. In understanding, consideration arises, which makes the wife's face gentle and her words pleasant. When the husband returns home, he will feel warm. A wife may wish to give her husband some good evaluations and encouragement when he is in a low mood, and ultimately receive his enthusiastic return.
When the husband feels tired, as a wife, it's better to give him some personal space first and not disturb him. When a husband is willing to tell his wife about his unhappiness in his career, he can patiently listen. In terms of sexual activity, although the frequency of sexual activity between middle-aged couples may decrease, sexual activity between couples actually includes various aspects such as creating a warm atmosphere, mutual care and caregiving, and joint activities. A thoughtful wife will also use these to meet the sexual needs of both parties.
In short, if a wife wants to improve her husband's "sexual boredom" during middle age, she must first give him understanding and consideration. In addition, if his husband is often under high pressure or in a bad mood, she can persuade him to see a psychologist to maintain a healthy heart.
