Post Date December, 02 2023
A couple of college classmates fell in love and married, but only after marriage did they know that their husband was infertile. The two agreed to accept IVF through "borrowing sperm". The child was pregnant for nearly five months, but her husband died unexpectedly. Before she died, she left a will to leave all her property to her parents, and did not let her wife and the unborn child inherit
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The battle for production triggered by "borrowing essence to produce children"
In 2006, Li Juan (pseudonym) and Fan Wen (pseudonym) got married after four years of love in college. Their life was sweet. The only distress was that they had been married for three years, but had no children. In the past three years, the couple went to many hospitals for examination, but the reason was not found. At the beginning of last year, at the urging of their parents-in-law, the couple went to the hospital again for an examination. The result showed that Fan Wen was not fertile, which greatly hit the whole family.
Because she was too eager to have a child, Li Juan went to the hospital quietly last April to inquire about the test-tube baby and discussed with her husband after returning home. Fan Wen has always felt that he owes his wife a debt. In addition, although being a test-tube baby is not his own child, it is better than being adopted, at least because he has blood relationship with his wife.
The husband and wife reached an agreement and insisted on borrowing sperm to have children despite the opposition of their parents-in-law. In April this year, when Li Juan was nearly five months pregnant, Fan Wen had a car accident and died after being rescued. Before his death, he discussed with his wife again to kill the child, but did not get Li Juan's consent.
Because he didn't want to leave his property to a child who had no blood relationship with him, Fan Wen made a will and left his property and deposit of more than 100000 yuan to his parents. Li Juan, with a big belly, started a "heritage battle" with her parents-in-law
Expert opinions
Why Chinese men are so sensitive to "borrowing sperm"
Some time ago, there were often small advertisements on the streets of many cities, which used sensational language to "borrow essence" from men. It is usually a glamorous woman with a billionaire fortune who, because of her spouse or husband's incompetence, asks for a person with Kongfu talent and spreads the rain and dew... Such advertisements are pasted on the walls of streets, overpasses, or telephone poles. Most people can see through such a bad trick, and laugh like a joke. However, when "borrowing essence" really happens in real life, it is as tangled and bitter as Li Juan and Fan Wen.
There is a natural psychological difference between men and women about "borrowing sperm". A woman's surrogacy is not only a contribution of an egg, but also a traumatic birth. However, women often do not regret what they did, and even have real feelings for the "borrowed" child. However, the vast majority of men can't treat the "borrowed" children as their own. This is due to the strong possessive desire, sense of conquest and self-esteem of men themselves. "Borrowing" is tantamount to an alternative "green hat", which makes men never look up! Especially for Chinese men, only blood relationship is their eternal foundation.
However, although men do not want to borrow others' seeds, they are always happy to sow their own seeds. For example, the psychology of men who were cheated by the clumsy trick of borrowing essence is actually well known to the world: First, they can enjoy the good fortune, easily finish a shot, enjoy the good fortune of everyone in the rich woman's warm fragrance, and also make a small fortune after finishing the fight. Why not do such a good thing?
Older leftover women are more supportive of "borrowing sperm to have children"
American actor and Oscar winner Judy? Foster is a special "single mother". She gave birth to two children in 1998 and 2001. At that time, the media all over the world were asking: who is the father of the child?
In 2013, Judy? Foster officially publicized his homosexual identity and explained that his two children were "born through sperm".
Coincidentally, Taiwan actress Lan Xinmei also went to Japan in 2008 to undergo an operation to borrow sperm for birth. Unfortunately, she miscarried two months after the operation
With the increasing number of older single women, the idea of "having children without fathers" is also gradually budding. In a related survey, 50% of netizens supported older leftover women to be mothers by "borrowing sperm to have children"
However, Chinese women face many embarrassments and dilemmas in the face of "borrowing sperm to have children". Both legal provisions and secular views make "borrowing sperm to have children" a very difficult thing. From the perspective of raising and educating children, a single mother is indeed not as meaningful to the growth of children as a harmonious and complete family.
