Post Date December, 03 2023
Now, the role of father in family education is very special. In fact, the so-called "special" is just a concept set by fathers. Now both men and women are equal, and both men and women have the obligation to educate and take care of their children. Don't think how reasonable the traditional view of "men in charge of the outside world and women in charge of the inside world" is.
Preparation patience
Many men are extremely excited when they first became fathers and can't put down their children. But over time, they are tired of crying, noisy, and dirty when urinating. The excitement passed within a few days. They tease when they are happy, leave the children aside when they are upset, and even beat and scold the children when they are angry. How can such a father establish a good image in front of the children?
Preparation responsibility
Many dads think: "I go out every day to earn money. How can I have time to take care of my children? It's his mother's job to educate them." This excuse is to shirk responsibility. On the other hand, if you let your mother run around for work, can you take care of your children at home? You will probably refuse with other reasons. The less time fathers spend with their children, the less they know and understand them. The temperament characteristics of men and women are complementary, and children should be eclectic in their interactions with their parents.
Preparation scale
In family education, fathers often lack patience and care, so their education consciousness is single, that is, "not smart enough". What does a man symbolize? Strength, majesty and courage. But because of these, there is no tenderness to care and comfort. Maybe dads should say, "Men should be like men. What kind of men are they?" In fact, a father who can show maternal power will not make their male power inferior, but will make their male power more profound and intelligent because of his own hardness and softness. Family education that can master a scale and have a harmonious relationship with children is successful education.
Prepare for balance
The balance here is very simple, that is, the father and mother's educational views must be unified, and the goal must be consistent. There must be no situation where the mother is a red face and the father is a black face in family education. In the process of educating children, we should not be a black face, which will seriously damage the relationship between you and the child. How to avoid red and black? Parents (including grandparents and grandparents) should be both black and white faces at the same time. This will not lead to confusion for children, but also establish the parents' authority in children. However, there should be premise, no pressure, no coercion, and should be reasonable.
When mothers participate in education, we call for the participation of fathers. It is the difference education between you that can help children better understand the roles and characteristics of men and women, and help children successfully form healthy gender awareness and perfect personal character.
