Men are all like this, their love comes and goes in a hurry, and their attitude presents a double heaven of ice and fire. As long as a man has made up his mind to go, it is difficult to impress a man's heart regardless of how a woman detains and pretends to be pitiful. They will think of ways to either disappear directly or, in the absence of an end, invent various fantastic and moving excuses to coax a woman into tolerating and accepting his betrayal.
So what excuses do men like to use to break up with women? Here I would like to make a simple list analysis. When men break up, they like to find the following excuses:
First, I have no ability to give you more happiness. I hope you can find a better man than me!
Saying this sentence is not necessarily entirely in language. It will be expressed to you through actions and emotions, and it will give you a process of psychological acceptance. With all due respect, in the final analysis, he is just waiting for a woman to take the initiative to speak up. He constantly thinks that you are considering it, and he is gradually breaking up on the grounds that he still loves you but lacks the ability to give you enough happiness.
"No matter how beautiful things are, the ultimate goal is to break up with you, and the fundamental reason is that I don't love you anymore.". So why do they complicate the simple word "breakup" so much? They have at least two kinds of psychology. On the one hand, they are afraid that women will pester themselves and make them feel inferior. Therefore, they play a sad card in the name of love in front of women; On the other hand, it is to give women a step, as there is a joke on the internet that says, "If possible, it is best to leave the word 'break up' to the girl you once loved to say it.".
In life, it is true that there are people who break up with women due to such a mentality, but it is really rare. Whether they really think so can be seen from their actions and past personality. On this point, if a woman wakes up a bit, she will have her own feelings.
Secondly, my family doesn't agree with me being with you, and I don't want to delay your youth like this!
On the issue of breaking up, many men will not admit that their willingness to break up is because they no longer love you, even if they kill them, for the sake of face. Therefore, he will naturally pull out his parents and use their authority to oppose and their filial piety as an excuse to launch sugarcoating and tangled persuasion to the woman. The more cunning a man is, the more capable he is of performing this drama. He can "reveal" such information to you several months in advance, and demonstrate a tangle, asking a woman to actively ask him why, and then pushing the boat along the river to convince a woman that there is no doubt... However, with all due respect, there are quite a few men who have already made an abacus N times in their hearts.
Based on such an analysis, I have no intention of worsening the inner ugliness of men, but there are many examples and people in real life. It is really despicable and shameless for women to divide their hands and still look back in the pain of sadness.
Third, please give me two years. In these two years, I will strive hard alone, and I will definitely come back and marry you when I have finished!
Some men, when breaking up, will make promises to women, leaving a heroic statement that will make them moved. At the same time, they have to accept their commitment to "travel far away for love." However, the ultimate solution to the breakup is time and distance... On this issue, the real man has already figured it out. He knows better than anyone that time and distance will make everything change, and he doesn't have to take the initiative to break up with women himself, Time and distance will allow women to make their own choices. Anyway, as long as two people are not together, I am an independent and free person. What I do to continue to be together with which woman, you have no idea.
To tell the truth, I have to admire the "wisdom" of this kind of man. I just want to tell this secret here. I don't know how many such "excellent men" would hate me to the bone.
Fourth, I am for your good. There are many things I cannot tell you. Let's break up!
Compared to the above three types, this last type of man is even more capable of playing. He doesn't tell you anything and simply plays with you deeply. And deep men are often the most genuine pain in a woman's heart. He will put all his past and promises in front of you in one sentence: "Dear, I am for your good. There are many things I cannot tell you now, but you will understand in the future. Let's break up!"
"What a profound and manly statement! Women are intoxicated with it, but the sky is always blue. What needs to be explained is that when women understand in the future, this man will already be holding other women in his arms. At that time, if they don't understand, they must understand, and understanding is also unclear. In the end, when he broke up with you, they just didn't love you anymore, and women were just fooled by a man.".