Post Date December, 03 2023
Being afraid of oneself is commonly known as being afraid of one's wife. Throughout history, no matter how high a man's status or ability is, his wife is the only person who can control them. Some people say that being afraid of a wife is a sign of cowardice, but in fact, it is men who are afraid of themselves who know better how to love their wives.
The 'cowardly' type is afraid of internal factors. This type of man is really afraid of his wife and belongs to the type of "under the influence of femininity, bowing down and sticking to his ears". Xiao Zhao is famous for his "good temper" and is even more obedient to his wife. If he raised a contrary opinion, his wife would be furious and say, "You're going to rebel!" Due to his wife's "power," he simply let her make up his mind in case of trouble. Most of these henpecked men have a Oedipus complex. When they were young, they usually relied on their mother and lacked assertiveness. They like to let their mother decide everything. So, when choosing a marriage partner, they subconsciously want to find women with stronger personalities; After marriage, being submissive in front of one's wife is, in a sense, a desire to continue seeking maternal protection Men all want to have a "lever" wife
The 'whirlwind' type is afraid of internal factors. This kind of man's "fear" of his wife is actually a unique tactic. In order to reduce family conflicts, they do not listen to their wife's chatter and "flatter and betray" their wife. They usually don't want to work hard for household chores, so they leave their wives to take care of some old sesame seeds and rotten millet. Their wives the final say, and they are happy to ignore everything. Their words, "You are the master at home", make their wives happy and make themselves happy. But in the face of certain 'big events', they usually grasp their own principles and make the final decision by coaxing and deceiving themselves.
The 'tolerant' type is afraid of internal factors. This type of man usually respects his wife very much and is tolerant and tolerant in everything. It may seem like he is afraid of his wife, but in fact, it is a gentleman's demeanor. They are often able to understand and forgive others in front of their wives, be magnanimous, and turn conflict into friendship. Their 'fear' is not only a respect and humility towards their wives, but also a way of expressing love.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
