As a husband and wife, it is inevitable that there will be quarrels for life, emotion, children, and many. However, no matter how fierce the quarrel is, we must pay attention to what we say and what we pour out. If we are not careful, we will split the relationship between husband and wife, so we must think twice before we act.
The first sentence: "Why are you so annoying?"
A woman is a natural talker, but you must think that she must say so much for you. Other men make her say that she disdains it. Even if you don't like to listen, tell her directly, dear, I know that I love you. This is more effective than anything else. Otherwise, your words "Why are you so annoying" will set off a "family storm" for your wife. So whether you want to be sharp or gentle is up to you.
The second sentence: "What do you know?"
I don't know whether women are stupid in men's eyes. I have heard many men say that in life. They often say that women are stupid and don't understand anything. In fact, are women really stupid? Why did she become stupid? Think of those stupid women and stupid women in those days, which you got in the pursuit of gunfire. Aren't they stupid at that time? So as a man, don't hurt his sweetheart with such casual words, and learn to cherish.
The third sentence: "This is what I did when I married you."
What are you doing when you marry your wife? I'm afraid that only men can understand how wide the use is. If it's just to let her wash, cook and do chores for you, then you should marry, why not find a nanny? Remember, your wife must be the most important person in your life and the closest lover. She is willing to do anything for you because she loves you enough and is diligent. What else do you want if you have a good wife?
The fourth sentence: "Can you manage it?"
You say you can't care? Yes, what you do is beyond the control of others, but the condition is that what you do can really be done. When your woman stops you from helping you analyze things, you should learn to be grateful, not to have a loving face. When you say this, have you noticed your wife's silent and tearful eyes?
The fifth sentence: "What do you want to eat and drink from me?"
It may be said to the stay-at-home wife, but you must remember that this sentence is tantamount to insulting a woman's personality and really hurts. It is not a simple thing to be a full-time wife. They are busy with housework and helping their husbands and children all day long. They are the logistic support of the men who dominate the business world. Don't turn a blind eye to her efforts. You may not be able to work and start a business without them. They are not unable to support themselves, but give up their own business for you. Therefore, if you want your wife to support you behind the back, you must do your part in front of others.
The sixth sentence: "If you can pass, leave if you can't"
When you feel that this sentence is noble, how much do you think your feelings are left? Is a woman giving her beautiful youth to you for giving up halfway? It is said that it takes only a minute to love a person, but it takes a lifetime to forget a person. So does the husband and wife. Life is only a few decades in a hurry. Not every moment has beautiful scenery. Not every woman you love can love you sincerely like your wife.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)