In matters of marriage, although the ancients said that getting married with the chicken and getting married with the dog, we still need to keep our eyes open and find a good husband. Those who do not meet the conditions must not be taken! After careful observation, when a man can achieve the following 15 things, you can consider marrying him.
1. Strong
Those men who have failed once and complain about everything, feel sluggish, fall down, and cannot get up must not take it. A man should be able to give women a sense of security. If you find a husband who cannot take care of you, and often cries out about his misfortune in front of you, making you also bear the pain that he can actually save, it is a very failure.
2. Loyalty
I don't need to say much about this. I believe all women don't want their husbands to fall out of love.
3. Air bearing
You must not find a petty man, even if he loves you. But because of a small matter, you become jealous. Whether you are socializing with your boss on business or gathering with friends who have not been around for many years, a man who makes a big fuss or keeps a gloomy face for a long time after you return home is actually selfish. Of course, he will say that he is jealous because he loves you, but don't forget, love someone and give them freedom. Sisters, don't be left at home disguised by men using various methods to do laundry and cooking as a housewife. It's not that housewives are not good, but as women in today's society, they need to have their own social circle, be independent and self-improvement, and never find men who cannot give themselves freedom.
4. Health
It is not required that the man be so powerful and tall, but he must be physically healthy and healthy. A woman has some physical problems, which can be called flaccid. If a man is sick all day, what do you say?
5. Independence
No one says filial piety is wrong. Filial men are very kind, but in everything between husband and wife, they seek the opinions of others and have no own opinions. They always say, "Mom said, Mom said..." This kind of good baby in front of a mother is definitely not acceptable. Remember, you are marrying a man, not that man's mother.
6. Love my house and love my dog
If a man truly loves you, he will love everything about you, including your bad habits, your friends, your family... If he cannot tolerate certain flaws in your friends or family or is dissatisfied with the people around you, then as a smart woman, he should try to avoid meeting them as much as possible; If he is so demanding that you cut off contact with them, don't hesitate, dump him!
7. Practical work
Love is very important, but it should be built on the foundation of bread. It's not necessary to have a wealth, but life needs to be secure. The so-called 'poor couple mourning for everything' means that if a man cannot even pay for their child's milk powder and starts worrying about next month's housing payment at the beginning of this month, then you will only have to endure hardship with him.
8. Confidence
A man who exudes a confident aura can make women rely on him with peace of mind.