During my pregnancy, my husband worked overtime every day. I propped up my stomach to deliver meals to him, and the scene before me made me cry

I was very careful during my first pregnancy, and I was cautious and cautious in everything I did, fearing that any mistakes would be detrimental to the baby. The doctor told me that the first three months are crucial and we must pay attention. In order to avoid physical contact with my husband, I proposed sleeping in separate rooms. Although he was unwilling, he reluctantly accepted my request for the sake of the baby. After three months, I finally finished. During the prenatal examination, the doctor told me that the baby was very healthy and kept me in a happy mood.

I lived in the same bedroom with my husband again, and he was very happy. He always hugged me when he slept at night. I am still afraid that he will touch my little baby. When sleeping, I always deliberately keep a little distance from him. My thoughts are all on myself, and I don't know when my husband got off work late and worked overtime every now and then. After a long time, I feel unhappy in my heart. Every time I cook food, I pour it out the next day. I don't work overtime at night and don't eat at home,. He didn't bring lunch at noon, and I was pregnant and didn't dare to eat overnight food, so every time I poured it out, I felt so wasted.

That day, I asked my husband in advance if he wanted to work overtime at night, and he replied that I wasn't sure yet. So I slowly prepared dinner, and when it was time for him to finish work, he called and said that the company had a new project to work overtime, so I had to eat it myself without waiting for him. I just have to eat on my own, feeling unhappy. After dinner, I thought of going out for a walk. After going downstairs, I realized that my husband's company is also close to my home. It's better to send him some dinner to make him moved. This can also enhance the intimate relationship between our husband and wife.

I took my lunch box and went to the subway station. Our house was only two stops away from their company, and soon I arrived at their company. I couldn't enter without a door card. The security guard at the door stopped me and I told him I was going to deliver food to someone from a certain company. As soon as he heard my husband's name, he said he knew him and let me in. Arriving at their company, the office was quiet with the lights on.

I walked in and shouted 'Is anyone there?'? Immediately after calling my husband's name, I heard the sound of something falling to the ground. I followed the sound and walked over. My husband came out. Seeing me, he was very nervous and forced out a smile to ask me why I came. I looked at him without confusion and took out the lunch box in my hand as a gesture to give it to him. He was a bit surprised and took the lunch box and said to let me go back first. He still has some work to do.

I feel like he's keeping something from me, he's been blocking me from entering his office. I insisted on entering, so I shook off his hand and walked straight over. A woman is in his office, her hair is messy and she is buttoning her shirt. A burst of anger surged up in my heart, and I pointed to my husband and asked who she was. My husband turned red and said he was just a colleague discussing work.

How could I possibly believe him. I instantly felt very aggrieved, caressing the baby in my stomach and crying. The woman spoke up and said, "Mr. Zhang (my husband), don't hide it. We've been doing well for so long, you should have told her clearly. Her husband yelled at her and told her to shut up. She angrily led her bag and ran out. After she left, my husband started apologizing to me. What about apologizing? I can't accept it, I really can't accept it. After five years of hard work in a marriage, he was about to lead a happy life of three, but he cheated. What should I do, what should I do?

Reply from Weiqing Consultant:

During a woman's pregnancy, her husband had an affair, which is indeed difficult to accept. It's really unfair for you to work hard and have children for him, while he's having a good time outside. According to statistics, during pregnancy, women are also at the peak of men's infidelity. From the beginning of your pregnancy until now, you have been avoiding your husband for fear that he may unintentionally harm your baby.

But he is an adult, and your cautious behavior inevitably makes him feel uncomfortable. If you are pregnant, his physiological desires cannot be released. If you reject him again, it will make his heart very lonely. In this way, if there is a rift between your husband and wife, other women will take advantage of it. Judging from your husband's current attitude, a sense of guilt has emerged. You have a child now, and if he is willing to change his ways, I suggest that you communicate well. Regardless of the outcome, please take good care of your own body, as your body and skin are affected by your parents.